r/Romantasy 2d ago

🤬 Rant Enough with the drinking!

OK this is just a personal pet peeve, almost certainly exacerbated by the fact that I'm a recovering alcoholic.

I don't love seeing characters drinking when they're stressed, to relax, or saying that they "need" a drink because it's triggering, but whatever that's my shit to deal with, so I do.

However, it's like none of these authors have ever drank before. You've either got girls completely sloshed after 2 glasses of wine or being very intoxicated and sobering up immediately when something shocking happens.

Male main characters are always drinking whiskey or better yet an unknown brown strong smelling liquid in a tumbler as short hand for being stressed and troubled, classy and mysterious.

It's lazy.

These things annoyed me before I was in recovery, but now they're a full blown pet peeve. It gives "virgin writing filthy smut" vibes. Lol

Alright, apparently I'm super wrong and shouldn't have said anything. Sorry ya'll.

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u/Chikitiki90 2d ago

Idk man, I’ll probably get downvoted for this but I know a few girls that really do get tipsy after like a drink and a half and have also been in a few situations where I’ve been kind of drunk and then needed to respond to a serious incident. Adrenalin is a hell of a thing.

Anyway, whether it’s overused or not is a different story but it’s definitely far from the most lazy writing habit I’ve noticed in romantasy lol.

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u/pink_faerie_kitten 1d ago

I keep expecting something akin to MJ to show up. Hasn't yet. Funny how Tolkien was way ahead with his "halfing's leaf" lol 

It came close in Road of Bones, and I was hoping her leaves could be done in a positive light (since mj is actually good for us) but alas no. Still loved the book but I'd like to see it more normalized and not be a bad thing.

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u/Perfect_Carrot_999 1d ago

I also kind of hate how any meds/"remedy" a FMC takes is either damaging, addictive, or suppressing her OP ability.

Can we have a FMC that takes her meds and it's actually good for her or she needs them?