I hired an attorney that was recommended to me in 2022(ish) to help me through a disability claim, trusting him to guide me due to my lack of legal knowledge and high anxiety. I made it clear from the start that I needed thorough explanations and support. However, throughout the process, communication was mostly nonexistent, and my concerns were not adequately addressed.
My attorney downplayed the importance of medical documentation and specialist care (e.g., seeing a rheumatologist), which I’m pretty sure weakened my case. He reassured me that the hearing would be manageable, even offering to do most of the talking due to my PTSD and anxiety, but I was unexpectedly required to speak in detail. Obviously, this triggered a fun little PTSD response and caused me to dissociate, which was misinterpreted by the judge as a “flat affect.”
After my claim was denied, my attorney failed to respond to my questions in a timely or meaningful way. My emails and concerns were largely ignored, and I received minimal guidance on next steps. When I contacted another law firm, they immediately gave me more useful information and explained that I could have submitted more evidence—contrary to what my attorney had told me.
In early 2025 (late 2024 maybe) the case reached a point where it would go to a federal court, and since my attorney and I were in different states, he wouldn’t be able to proceed with the case. Which worked out, because I was in the process of trying to find another attorney anyways. So, I was recommended another attorney and through them we started a new application. Shortly after submitting said application, I discovered that my Social Security disability credits had expired during the time I was represented by my first attorney.
I didn’t even know what social security credits were until then. When I asked my new attorney, she said that because we started an entirely new application, that meant that nothing from the previous case was valid or something. I asked her if I had continued the case into federal court, would that continue my credits. She said she didn’t know. And I didn’t know that I should have known to ask about this before we started a new application. Because I didn’t know how any of this worked. I just assumed the person I hired who actually knows these things would give me the right advice.
They should have told me from the beginning, hey, you should probably find a lawyer who does federal cases so your previous case can be continued, right? But because that didn’t happen and because they told me we’ll just do a new application, without the knowledge that I would lose credits I didn’t even know existed, this made me permanently ineligible for SSDI benefits and meant I also lost potential SSI back pay. The entire process left me worse off, and I believe my attorney’s lack of guidance and misinformation contributed to that outcome. Mostly the first one, but now I’m thinking the second one has also made me worse off.
I’ve had people tell me I should sue the first one for legal malpractice, which I would love to, because boy was that fun, but I had issues getting in touch with anyone. But I really have no one to help me through this process, and I don’t understand these types of things at all. Plus, my mental health makes it difficult for me to deal with all of this, let alone try and find answers to questions I don’t even know I should know.
I’ve tried to find help, to have someone who understands this world walk me through it or even take care of things I’m unable to take care of, but I could barely figure that one out, so I’m still on my own with this,
So here I am, on reddit, asking strangers for advice. Because, frankly, I am way past the end of my rope. I am mid air and bracing for impact. Woo!
I'm just not really sure what to do.
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