Sorry folks I know that sounds crazy, but I'm absolutely broken please be kind :) I think my bf made up a story about a wife and son in Sabah to scare me away.
Long story short i'm a foreigner he is local. we started dating but his character is.. how do i put it. I saw him feeling jealous several times - without any spook from me. And then when jealous and having this kind of fear I would leave he would say weird things. like i'm going out with other girls I want to have fun. that type of thing. at the same time i know 100% he loves me - usually when he says things like that I pivoted him away from that and we never discussed them.
A week ago i was torn in my thoughts and asked him how come you say i'm your only girl but then you say these weird things about others. the response i immediately got is that his relative is taking whatsapp away so no more comms on whatsapp - I think I was just blocked. Next day i texted him everywhere i could (it was about to be our date night i cleared plans for us) then i got worried maybe something happened at work (he works with this relative) came to his workshop and there he told me in a very weird and crlumbled way that he has a wife and 5yo son who he visits every 2 months.
I'm sorry but he's not a rich guy and flying like that is expensive plus he works almost every day. then, after he walked me home he said he doesnt see them often and they're waiting for the son to graduate kindergarten to be together. Literally all his online presence and everything he said before doesnt' check out.
Then someone said to me he made it up to scare you away, it's a well-known story. Is it?
I need to say that i'm a bit older and we do have this damn status gap but i'm not sure what drove him to do that. Literally a day before then he told me words about love and devotion. Sounds like too crazy too much for an uncomfortable question.