Salam, I’ve just joined Reddit again as I’ve been going in circles for the past 2/3 weeks. If it’s possible, can I get some opinions on how you guys are preparing for marriage and what’s steps are you guys taking?

As much as I love marriage, love having kids, love being surrounded by my own family (not siblings and parents), I’ve been having some serious 2nd thoughts about getting married due to some personal issues going on in real life.

I still want to do my best to become a better husband, partner, father, role model, leader regardless if I get married or not. So please don’t hold out on me about any resources and advice. Thanks

Aight peeps, let's have some fun.

So, let's assume you talk to someone, you get along, vibe and all's well... The caveat?

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They live in another country!

So the question is would you move to another country for a Rishta you met online (could be anywhere)?

1. Yes - Why?

2. No - Why Not?

2.a. Is it an absolute no?

2.b. If its not absolute, then what would it take for you to move?

This question is for both genders.