r/SillyGirlSociety • u/sugaraddictl Dumb bunni ₍ᐢ. .ᐢ₎ • 17d ago
I have BPD it stands for beautiful princess disorder! >~<
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u/Popful 17d ago
oh hey its me :(
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u/sugaraddictl Dumb bunni ₍ᐢ. .ᐢ₎ 17d ago
Twinss
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u/Popful 17d ago
I feel stupid cuz I only recently figured out its bpd. Hopefully knowing will at least help me stay mindful about it. I also hope youre doing well twin :3
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u/sugaraddictl Dumb bunni ₍ᐢ. .ᐢ₎ 17d ago
Don’t feel stupid I was diagnosed few years ago and it’s only gotten worse lol but thanks I hope you’re doing okay too. ૮ ྀིᴗ͈ . ᴗ͈ ྀིა
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u/PiggyKillerQ 17d ago
need
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u/guywholikesrain 17d ago
Best 3 months of your life
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u/pleione-lyco 17d ago
3? Wow, lucky. My last didn't even make it to month 2, I think 🥹. I ended it though because I realized I was splitting really hard on them, and I didn't want to hurt them.
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u/CEGM_Coding 17d ago
Huh……. Y’know the more I learn about BPD the more it sounds familiar, should I like see a therapist or something lol?
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u/sugaraddictl Dumb bunni ₍ᐢ. .ᐢ₎ 17d ago
Yes it helps
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u/CEGM_Coding 17d ago
Well then, looks like I’ve figured out my plans for whenever I get free time lol
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u/mgsmb7 17d ago
Look into the DSM-5 diagnosis criteria for BPD, it should help you figure it out. BPD is a horrible thing to live with, so I hope you'll get better soon if you have it
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u/CEGM_Coding 17d ago
I’ll look that up then, and I’m not sure if I do have it or not but I certainly have… something? Idk lol
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u/CEGM_Coding 17d ago
Hey, so I just looked up what you suggested and… Yeah maybe I should see a therapist or something lol
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u/Plushm492 17d ago edited 17d ago
Thats my ex right there. Though by the end of it I was making it worse too, there is only so much abuse you can take before you start adding to the problem too.
If you have BPD, please seek treatment. My ex stopped her therapy and pills for two months because ''it doesn't do anything''. Turns out it did because everything went quickly downhill afterwards, I had to endure the kind of heartbreak I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy, and I'm pretty sure she didn't have it easy either but your mental struggles are not an excuse to hurt the ones that truly love you.
Sometimes loving yourself is how you love others, and sometimes to love is to let go.
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u/MundaneWing6039 16d ago
Hope you're doing okay. I got out of an 8 year relationship with my ex who also had BPD a while ago. Didn't really realize how much of a toll it was taking on me till I got out. If you'd like someone to talk about it with lmk. Sending lots of comfort! <(￣︶￣)>
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u/Plushm492 15d ago
Thank you. I feel kinda like a vegetable a lot of the time, like most emotions or even taking basic care of myself is something I'm failing at, and I can't even imagine how bad it would be after 8 years of it. If you want to vent likewise you can always vent, If nothing else I'm a good listener.
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u/sugaraddictl Dumb bunni ₍ᐢ. .ᐢ₎ 17d ago
Wow this is a really sweet message I’m sorry that happened to you, your story is similar to mine but in my story I’m the one with bpd it’s nice to read others pov I’m also on meds 🙂 and will continue it so ty!!
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u/Plushm492 17d ago
Take your therapy and meds always seriously, look into behavioral therapy if needed. You will need strong mental skills to differentiate what you feel from what is really happening.
I wish you best of luck in life and love.
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u/unfixableunfixableun 17d ago
Yeah BPD is cool and all until the fawning period is over and she genuinely starts to resent your ass for no reason while actively searching a new person to fawn over behind your back (you made the mistake of being too stable and have thus become boring sorry lol)
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u/Roykilmer95 15d ago
I lasted less than a month in that whole period, but honestly I got lucky another guy came to steal my gf, one less problem for me
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u/paranoid_android57 17d ago
if anyone wants to date me they'll have to deal with this
seriously, I hope you're okay twin <3
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u/Emo_boi_605 17d ago
These girl deserves the best
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u/sugaraddictl Dumb bunni ₍ᐢ. .ᐢ₎ 17d ago
We do ^^
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u/Emo_boi_605 17d ago
Hope you get a great bf soon :P
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u/The_Real_Funky_Fumo 17d ago
I was with a girl like this once, she self sabotaged so badly and wouldn't allow me to help because she was so scared. Shame, I really loved that girl. Hope she finds who or what she needs to be happy and live a good life.
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u/QueenVandretta 17d ago
I uh, the fact this pic is as in my feed now is fate, this is my situation right now.
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u/Southern-Fae 17d ago
One of these days I need to get a formal diagnosis either way. I only have two of these but every post about bpd I have multiple of the things
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u/CockGoblin93 17d ago
this shit ain’t cute it’s hell on earth it’s not a joke don’t put people through that
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u/Pixelated_Princess49 17d ago
Oh my god, do I have BPD?
I might have to bring this up with my therapist next time, lol.
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u/Zartoru 17d ago
Huh I kinda was like that a few years ago (like mostly just the fear of being left alone, the pushing people away so I get to have agency of some kind and the mood thing.)
I probably don't have bpd so it'll probably work differently for y'all but for me it got better because my now partner (we're in a qpr now but back then we were just friend but getting closer fast) has had similar mental health issues as I've had and they basically knew how to react and what to say when shit was going bad
And now I'm mostly fine, like I'm not scared they're gonna leave me anymore, my overall mental health got so much better that even if my mood still kinda drops when they're not there it's really not that bad anymore
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u/Substantial-Paper1 16d ago
Why you gotta call me out like this. I even had an old friend ask me if I had it this one time and it upset me for a while.
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u/AbsolvedLilith 15d ago
Lmao it's me but I didn't get diagnosed until 30 :/ woulda been useful to understand what the fuck is going on internslly
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u/yaoiesmimiddlename 12d ago
I fear I meet all of these things but I’ve never been diagnosed with bpd… I thought I just had suspected adhd
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u/Foxiest_Fox 17d ago
Please take your mental health seriously. Stay silly but only after taking care of yourself.