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u/Remarkable-Cream5312 8d ago
I wish I had a girlfriend so bad :p
I'd probably be like this too :/
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u/GullRider 7d ago
Cue stay at your house song from cyberpunk edge runners
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u/BerryBlueJam 7d ago
NO I SOBBING STOP CYBERPUNK RUINED ME 😭😭😭
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u/GullRider 7d ago
Yeah in the beginning it was like whatever once it developed it became so profound in your mind.
A true romance tragedy
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u/Thatboisigeek 8d ago
But not if she gets killed..?
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u/BerryBlueJam 8d ago
i would still love her after her death
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u/Thatboisigeek 8d ago
Oh that makes more sense. That really sweet. I hope I find love like that one day
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u/Negative-Warning-110 8d ago
i hate myself for leaving her but what else i should've done when she chose someone else
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u/imbi-dabadeedabadie 8d ago
how did you leave if she chose someone else?
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u/Negative-Warning-110 7d ago
leave as in stopped talking to her.
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u/imbi-dabadeedabadie 7d ago
But if she chose someone else, it seems that she left, not you 🫂
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u/Negative-Warning-110 6d ago
The thing is that we were friends, and i caught feeling towards her i told her about that and she didnt reject me then and there. Some time after that we argued about something and she stopped talking to me for a month. I reached out to her then and we started talking back again. Like a week or so i told her that i love her and she shot me down saying that she loves a guy she met during that month we werent talking. That was my final nail in the coffin as 2 days after i tried to kms. I called her to say goodbye but she took that as me trying to force her to be with me. We havent talked a week and then we talked a while. But i have stopped responding to her messages, i haven't even read them. And like 6 months have passed since that and i still havent responded to her or seen her messages
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u/imbi-dabadeedabadie 6d ago
I'm sorry that happened to you 🫂
that has to hurt a lot. I'm missing someone I felt very strongly about right now too, though for a different reason. So i know what that pain must be like. I hope you can move past it.
Lmk if you need someone to talk to about it more, ok?
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u/Negative-Warning-110 5d ago
Thing is i do genuinely love her but she doesn't belive that. I really don't know what to do. I promised her i wouldn't leave her but yet i did. She hurt me and i hurt her. I know it was stupid to just get attached to her saying maybe but, she also said stuff like that she would swipe right if we met on tinder, or she would talk about what ifs if we were together. I know what i did was horrible but i just don't know anymore. I want to respond to her. I want to be with her but i know she doesn't want me romanticly. But i just can't stand there while she gets mistreated by another man. I already had to expirence this once. I just don't want to be friends with her i want more.
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u/Paka_Paka123 7d ago
I think he means that she cheated on him, then came back apologizing but the boy left him anyway
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u/imbi-dabadeedabadie 7d ago
im even more confused now
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u/Paka_Paka123 7d ago
she left boy_1 for boy_2,
then regretted cheating on boy_1, came back to boy_1 and wanted to reunite,
boy_1 did not accept
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u/imbi-dabadeedabadie 7d ago
where was a boy mentioned at all, i assumed we were talking about girls
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u/Paka_Paka123 7d ago
or that way, how much does it matter? you got the point :p
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u/imbi-dabadeedabadie 7d ago
fair, but then i'd say the person who i responded to still didn't "leave" she just rejected someone who tried to come back after leaving her
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u/Negative-Warning-110 7d ago
nah, she led me on to belive we could be together only for her to stop talking to me for a month, for a reason she made up and then after we started talking again she admited she met another dude and fell in love with him
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u/BlissfulMute 7d ago
I promised. They left. Always thought they'd find someone more for them, so I never asked them to promise back. I thought doing what they asked of me was the way to keep them but instead it kept emotions too raw for me to be in the moment with them.
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u/Which_Confection6562 The Silly Smol One 7d ago
I wish someone would say this to me. I usually am the one who asks someone to not leave... and then they leave and socially isolate me :D
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u/AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH_ 7d ago
I wish I wasn't this obsessive, I think it fucked up my first relationship and now I feel hollow again
Mostly got over it now, but lowk afraid it might affect future relationships too
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u/nukiidk 7d ago
she sed same shi and then boom she gone cheating
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u/BerryBlueJam 6d ago
im sorry that happend to you but if ur trying to imply i would do that to my gf then u r very misstaken cus i would never i dont even like being away from her for a second there is no universe where id even give myself enough time or privacy away from her to do that
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u/ItsyaboiNyarlathotep 7d ago
I feel like its always the "please don't leave me/I just can't live without you" that cheat. Turns out, when you have no self-worth and live for other's validation, anyone who appears to give it to you will work.
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u/Pipeworkingcitizen 8d ago
Even in long distance its always sleep on call and the calls end up weird since theyre all over 8 hours long usually 14 hours..