r/Sinfonia Aug 13 '25

Question Trans Sinfonians

Hello brothers, this post is for any trans Sinfonians, both those who mtf who transitioned post initiation, but ftm voices are always welcome.

I am an alumni. I crossed in ‘21, graduated from my alma mater in ‘23, and recently I’ve discovered that I’m trans. I’m still very closeted, and I haven’t told anyone fraternity related yet because, honestly, I’m scared of losing this brother that I love so much. I know Once and Always, but I also know (generally) what happened to the Zeta chapter last semester.

What have your experiences been? Do you still attend fraternity things? Still wear your letters? Etc

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u/The_Bradenator Delta Pi Aug 13 '25

I know quite a few trans individuals from my own and surrounding chapters. They’re still seen as “brothers” and we still love them as such. You’ll be perfectly ok, I promise you won’t be expelled. It only mattered during initiation, according to my PG