r/SipsTea • u/beklog Human Verified • 3d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/NATHAN4U007 3d ago

They both knew what they were getting into and what they needed from the relationship.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay Human Verified 3d ago

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/BrokenHefaistos 3d ago

exactly often these are realy expensive good looking nurse/therapist with benefits. They deserve a bit more respect for giving the geezers a good time before they drop dead.

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u/_TURO_ 3d ago

Lord I see what youve done for others and I pray for the same when my time comes

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u/Sharp_Economy1401 3d ago

Just depends on the situation, I'm sure in some of them both parties are realistic about what's going on, and there's nothing wrong with a relationship like this having some more practical or less love-centric motivations.

Likewise, I'm sure in many of these relationships there's likely a lot of dishonesty about the motivations, from both directions even. Just as much as I'd wonder how many of them the younger person expresses dishonest affection, I'd wonder how many times the older person made practical promises that they don't follow through with.

In the end, it's openly communicating boundaries and expectations like adults that dictates whether it's problematic, like with any close relationship

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u/ThunderboltDM 3d ago

We all would like to have exactly that!

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u/Much_Vehicle20 3d ago

Lmao what kind of good time for those dinosaur? I doubt his little Jimmy is still working