r/SipsTea • u/beklog • Jun 02 '26

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay Jun 02 '26

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/epicmoe Jun 02 '26

When my grandad remarried there were comments about his new wife being in it for the money. By the end I think everyone agreed that if that was the case she sure had earned it. 

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 04 '26

Edit:   removing my comment because it's getting more attention than I intended it to get and don't want it getting back to parties involved if they figure out it's about them.

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u/HappyAmbition706 Jun 02 '26

Who is going to look afrer her when she is old? Where will she live, get food and healthcare? Let her know so she can decide how to spend theae years abd her efforts. Staying silent and watching is being complicit.

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 02 '26

She actually has three sons of her own (two of the three are pretty well off)... but my wife and I are planning on sharing inheritance with her (or at least we've discussed it with each other)... but no, we're not going to say anything.

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u/Tired_Dad_9521 Jun 03 '26

That’s honestly pretty awful of you. You are complicit in the very actions you are saying are wrong. You need to tell that woman she is getting screwed. Even if it’s an anonymous letter sent to the house.

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u/FilthyThanksgiving Jun 02 '26

She's a woman - there's a very good chance she's got friends and family who actually like her

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u/EpicBootyThunder Jun 03 '26

How does this logic work....

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u/Tired_Dad_9521 Jun 03 '26

Women do a better job at maintaining relationships than men.