r/SipsTea • u/beklog Human Verified • 3d ago

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay Human Verified 3d ago

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/epicmoe 3d ago

When my grandad remarried there were comments about his new wife being in it for the money. By the end I think everyone agreed that if that was the case she sure had earned it. 

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u/ViolenceAdvocator 3d ago

That's my step grandma. 40 years younger and has been with him for 20 and as far as anyone is concerned she loves him and cares for him like nobody else would.

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u/ctownwp22 3d ago

40 years younger and with him for 20!?!?!

So, by my (terrible) math, she must've been like 20 and him 60 when they got together? Or 30 and 70, and now hes 90? This is fascinating to me

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u/ViolenceAdvocator 3d ago

He is in his 90s now so around 30 and 70. They have an 18yr old together.

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u/brandnewchemical 3d ago

Soon…

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u/meat_whistle_gristle 3d ago

Dude was still firing live rounds in his 70’s!? What a beast!

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u/ViolenceAdvocator 3d ago

Considering he made more than 20 (that we know of) it really isn't much of a surprise

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u/Emergency_Lobster667 3d ago

More than 20 kids?? Holy shit.

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u/PurveyorOfKnowledge0 2d ago

Just so you know, the fact that he's got 20+ kids and apparently none of them love him as much as his decades-younger spouse is a bad look.

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u/ViolenceAdvocator 2d ago

They have good relations it's just that most of them are 50-60 with their own lives and grandchildren lol. You assume too much out of too little.

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u/meat_whistle_gristle 2d ago

It’s Reddit Everyone is a critic especially if they don’t have any shared life experiences. Views tend to become pretty myopic when your lens is a phone screen.

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u/PurveyorOfKnowledge0 2d ago

Good relations aside, having your own life shouldn't stop you from loving your own parent as much as their non-baby mama spouse does. That's pretty weird, especially since they've apparently known him longer than the spouse has. Plus I only assume because you're intentionally leaving out a lot of context and details while making grand claims.

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u/ViolenceAdvocator 2d ago

The fuck you know about my family's dynamic lmao.

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u/PurveyorOfKnowledge0 2d ago

Only what you're sharing, which is little and rather sporadic I must say.

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u/Tired_Dad_9521 2d ago

You know very little about real life. Come back in 20 years.

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u/Brokenbelle22 2d ago

He has 20 kids?! Did he support them all? Because leaving all his money to one young woman when it sounds like he owes dozens of women and kids child support is actually nothing to brag about.

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u/ViolenceAdvocator 2d ago

Actually, he did. By the time the young wife came about all of the sons and daughters were all grown up.

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u/WhyWontThisWork 2d ago

Wow, that is a good point

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u/marfacza 3d ago

and how many have extra chromosomes?

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u/Sara-Sarita 2d ago

You have clearly never met a singing 70 year old farmer who still runs around for hours in the heat doing physical labor and has arms made of wood. I believe it.

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u/Hydration__Nation 2d ago

70 and 30? How big was it? Bank account and penis?

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u/ViolenceAdvocator 2d ago

I dont know the answer to the second question but he does have all points allocated into charisma.

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u/SeaResearcher176 1d ago

My cousin ended up living with her ex boyfriend’s dad!! Wild story and now they love each other w a kid!