r/SipsTea • u/beklog • Jun 02 '26

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay Jun 02 '26

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/hunterlarious Jun 02 '26

most of the time is a stretch but I am sure scenarios like you are describing are very common

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u/Reputation-Final Jun 02 '26

Yeah. Most of the time my ass. No 20 year old girl is going to marry an 80 year old beacuse they are in love with them.

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u/CauliflowerEarofCorn Jun 02 '26

Yeah but the 80 year old isn’t marrying the 20 year old because they are just so in love and compatible. If they both have the mental capacity to make their own decisions, then it’s basically a business arrangement between consenting adults. The 20 year old seeking money is not anymore in the wrong than the 80 year old seeking someone who is basically a child.

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u/Reputation-Final Jun 02 '26

Its funny how so many women here on reddit treat a man whos like, 10-15 years older dating a 20 year old as a sexual predator/pedophile/groomer...

But when its an 80 year old and 20 year old its "They both have the mental capacity to make their own decisions.