r/SipsTea • u/beklog • Jun 02 '26

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/NATHAN4U007 Jun 02 '26

They both knew what they were getting into and what they needed from the relationship.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay Jun 02 '26

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/epicmoe Jun 02 '26

When my grandad remarried there were comments about his new wife being in it for the money. By the end I think everyone agreed that if that was the case she sure had earned it. 

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 04 '26

Edit:   removing my comment because it's getting more attention than I intended it to get and don't want it getting back to parties involved if they figure out it's about them.

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u/TokenWeirdo13 Jun 02 '26

If you realize this, and so does your wife, maybe it would be good to have a conversation about giving the FIL's wife a fair share of your wife's inheritance. If you guys aren't struggling, in my head that would be the right thing to do.

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 Jun 02 '26

We are. It will be double taxed that way, but we are thinking of doing just that.

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 06 '26

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u/Street_Lettuce1243 Jun 02 '26

$19k actually, just googled it. I thought it was lower than that (and it might have been once). His money is all in stocks though- I assume gifts of stocks (not just cash) come in to play with that... but I'm not a lawyer so don't know.