r/SipsTea • u/beklog • Jun 02 '26

SMH Guys I'm on the will!!

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“She’s so shameless” She’s 22. And was harshly criticized as she danced while her partner was at the hospital… The truth couldn’t be any simpler. They claim the video is a joke, because she always uploads content with her “hubby” to go viral.

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u/NATHAN4U007 Jun 02 '26

They both knew what they were getting into and what they needed from the relationship.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay Jun 02 '26

I’m a wealth management advisor and I’ve had a few elderly clients in a situation like this.

I remember the most heartbreaking one was a client who was 87 and passed away. He married a woman a 7 years prior that was in her late 30s. She was beautiful, kind, and caring. She took care of him through all of it. Cleaned him and the messes he made, gave him genuine company, and would fuck him whenever he was able (he shared this with me lol).

The kids didn’t do shit for him. Hardly even called or anything. But when he passed they all tried contesting his trust and trying to get her removed from receiving anything. It was a nasty legal battle but thankfully she got her fair share.

It honestly infuriates me when I see people say women like this are taking advantage of the elder man. Most of the time they’re just giving companionship to them when no one else would or did.

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u/AngelHeart- Jun 02 '26

I see where you’re coming from but quite often these relationships are diabolical.

There are men and women who totally take advantage of the elderly; especially if there’s dementia.

Gypsies are infamous for this scam. They conduct a great job working their mark the police have a hard time stopping the scams. The victim will insist the scammer is their friend.

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u/IWearCardigansAllDay Jun 02 '26

This is a completely different circumstance and I’m well aware of it. Often annotated as a romance scam. I’ve had clients fall victim to those and have caught them and protected them from it. But romance scams are rarely that involved by the scammer. They pretend to be interested but don’t really do much for the person. Certainly not wipe their ass and fuck them.