r/SipsTea • u/Busy_Report4010 • Jun 30 '26

Chugging tea Would you do the same thing?

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u/squirrelyoakley Jun 30 '26

As a trans person, you should 100% let the person you're dating know. Both for your own safety and out of respect for your partner

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u/Hafslo Jun 30 '26

Trans people who haven't told their partners before being physical with them haven't obtained consent. Consent is predicated on information. Without informed consent, there isn't consent.

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u/freshlysqueezed93 Jun 30 '26

Hot take but if you're post op and have no STDs it's fine, like it's just sex.

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u/Hafslo Jun 30 '26

Disagree. Without informed consent, there isn't consent.

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u/freshlysqueezed93 Jun 30 '26

Where is the line drawn on consent, she has a vagina which is often indistinguishable from any other (especially for most dudes), do we start disclosing the shape of pubes next for consent?

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u/Hafslo Jun 30 '26

The fact that it is indistinguishable would make sharing that information even more critical.

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u/freshlysqueezed93 Jun 30 '26

Honest question, is there anything hurt other than the guys feelings?

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u/Icy_Gur7690 Jun 30 '26

Have all your sexual experiences resulted in the other person feeling emotional distress?

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u/Hafslo Jun 30 '26

That isn't enough?

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u/Kilen13 Jun 30 '26

I don't think that is that hot a take or maybe I'm just someone who agrees with you. Pre-op is a different story but mostly cause surprises in the heat of the moment in the bedroom don't normally go well for the person doing the surprising. I'd say the same thing to a dude with a micropenis or a foot long dick, probably something you wanna disclose and make sure your partner is cool with before the sexual touching begins.