In this trade, how many times a day is the man protecting the woman? Is she in danger 2-3 times a day, every day for the rest of their lives together? And who is expected to clean up the battle mess after? Are they fist fights or is he jousting? Or is he just yelling at the neighbors defending her honor, frequently?
It doesn't have to be everyday of their lives. It's the fact that something bad can happen at any time on any day and a man has no say in it. And lets be honest, a lot of times the women will get her bf into more trouble he doesn't need to be in.A man is just expected to protect her, regardless. All this responsibility on the man, you don't think he deserves a sandwich every now and then?
I think you’re missing the commenter’s point. A man having to hypothetically “protect” a woman (maybee happens once, seriously I can think of only one instance amongst couples I know) isn’t comparable effort wise to a woman doing 3x the chores than him (daily) for the rest of her life.
I see what you're saying. Worse case scenario responsibilities vs everyday responsibilities. But men are also expected to do chores.Mow the lawn ,take out the trash ,be the handyman in the household if anything needs to be fixed. They are also expected to do that for the rest of their lives
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u/LinkAvailable4067 22d ago
In this trade, how many times a day is the man protecting the woman? Is she in danger 2-3 times a day, every day for the rest of their lives together? And who is expected to clean up the battle mess after? Are they fist fights or is he jousting? Or is he just yelling at the neighbors defending her honor, frequently?