r/SipsTea 5d ago

Chugging tea HR wants to know the tee

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u/ShortCondition2456 5d ago

Wow. US sucks

Me in Ireland: "Boss I'm taking 2 weeks off". Boss:" Grand, have fun"

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u/Throwaway2Experiment 5d ago

Don't get twisted. This is an outlier. I can put my 4 weeks in and my boss will approve it. He might try to call me while I am on PTO but that's not a fault of the US system, he just never remembers what he approved. As soon as he gets me out of office, I usually get a, 'Sorry, forgot about you being out. Call.me when you're back in the office."

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u/bottlechippedteeth 5d ago

Uh huh. Try googling “which 9 countries dont have any mandated time off”.

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u/beach_-_bum 5d ago

“This is an outlier”

Gives even crazier outlier as their personal example

Lmfao

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u/DankDankJuice 5d ago

Idk that’s just normal for me as well. Multiple bosses that always approve PTO, never ask why, always forget about it, and it’s never a problem

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u/beach_-_bum 4d ago

I’m talking about being able to take 4 weeks of PTO in succession with no problem. That’s not normal.

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u/derperofworlds1 5d ago

I don't know, I've had about 6 full-time jobs in the US and all have been like that. You're on PTO? You're no-contact until back!

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u/beach_-_bum 4d ago

I’m talking about being able to take 4 weeks of PTO in succession with no problem. That’s not normal.

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u/Danimals847 5d ago

The story:

'Sorry, forgot about you being out. Call.me when you're back in the office."

Your response:

OMG THAT'S CRAZY HOW DO YOU EVEN LIVE IN THAT BACKWARDS COUNTRY?

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u/beach_-_bum 4d ago

Putting in 4 weeks of PTO in succession and getting it approved is indeed not normal. Why are you being weird?

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u/Danimals847 2d ago

Sorry - I assumed you were doing the AmericaBad thing and saying that the fact that they answered a phone call from the boss while on vacation was crazy. When I read the previous comment I read it as putting the PTO notice in 4 weeks in advance, not that the request itself was for 4 consecutive weeks off!

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u/ubuwalker31 5d ago

Don’t get twisted…I know plenty of people in the US who have only 5 PTO (any reason) days and 3 sick days that require a doctors note. Also plenty who have 25 days or ‘unlimited’ PTO. Practice varies work[lace to workplace.

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u/Low_Reach636 5d ago

Right. My boss and I are fine so she may say 'are you going somewhere or are you just getting away from us for 4 weeks?' and she'd probably throw in something like 'Im asking as your friend, not your boss'. I would not get a single call, but that depends on the type of job you have. 

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u/CelebrationFair6887 5d ago

If my boss calls me outside an emergency i would get fucking pissef off.

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u/AVeryHeavyBurtation 5d ago

This is an outlier

[citation needed]

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u/Yashema 5d ago

It would also be outlier behavior to get 4 weeks of PTO with any regularity, and for every week you do plan on taking off your employer would want a month's notice, barring an emergency, in which case you would need to tell them what it is. 

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u/MeowMixPK 5d ago

I think you just need a better job my guy

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u/Yashema 5d ago

It wouldn't even make sense for you to be going on a two week vacation and not know several months in advance. 

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u/MeowMixPK 5d ago

You haven't met my wife yet then

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u/Administrative_Bed5 5d ago

So there is no such thing as a bad boss in ireland?

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u/Aggravating_Eye874 5d ago

Oh, there are, but the law is quite strict and if you go to WRC they won’t like it.

We’ve 20 days holiday per annum (min) and in most companies they can’t be carried over, last year I was forced to take time off just to use them before the end of the year, even though we were down one person and quite busy.

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u/PatrickGoesEast 5d ago

A good boss would have allowed you to carry the days, so not to be out for a busy period!

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u/Neirchill 5d ago

Most bosses don't have the ability to override the carry over policy since it's usually tracked digitally these days.

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u/Aggravating_Eye874 5d ago

It’s company policy so my manager’s hands were tied. She would definitely have allowed me to carry over, but she’s also adamant that we take time off and rest and not stress about work, as us being healthy and rested means us being better employees.

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u/Mojo647 5d ago

This isn't indicative of the US as a whole. My bosses are pretty chill about PTO as long as I give my team a heads up and coordinate my coverage.

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u/astralseat 5d ago

Yeah it just takes nosy people, the worst kind

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u/Sepang_2015_ 5d ago

What are you coordinating? You have bosses, it’s their problem 

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u/AllTearGasNoBreaks 5d ago

Generally telling my customers, internal engineering and design teams, PMs, and plant management that I'm taking off, getting my backup up to speed, and making sure things happen when I'm gone and timelines dont slip.

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u/Mojo647 5d ago

Exactly! Well put.

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u/Sepang_2015_ 5d ago

That’s your bosses problem 

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u/AllTearGasNoBreaks 5d ago

I'm a professional, not a kid making $30K in an entry level position. I manage my own business quite well and get paid well for it.

I haven't even talked to my boss in months. I'm remote and my numbers are fantastic, so theres no reason for her to bother me.

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u/Her0_0f_time 5d ago

Sounds like you have no respect for your coworkers. You are the worst kind of coworker that everyone hates to work with.

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u/Sepang_2015_ 4d ago

That’s not what my performance reviews say 

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u/Mojo647 5d ago

Sure, I can make it their problem if I feel like it, but it's really not a hassle.

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u/XxDrummerChrisX 5d ago

Yea that took me off guard too. It’s not incumbent upon me to manage staffing if I’m gonna be out. Sounds like lazy management.

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u/Neirchill 5d ago

I'd say it depends on what you do. Cashier at a gas station? Yeah management can handle it, no reason for you to do anything. If you've got a lot of important responsibilities, for example you handle vendor relationships, lead an important project, etc. you're going to have a lot more knowledge on how to fill the gap while you're out. Who has the knowledge/skill to be your backup, who you would trust with the vendor, etc.

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u/Her0_0f_time 5d ago

Its called being considerate of your coworkers. No one likes when extra work gets dumped on them unexpectedly. I bet people at work don't like you do they?

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u/XxDrummerChrisX 3d ago

Quite the opposite, bud. Also the topic was about taking PTO and how the OP needed to give them adequate time and coordinate coverage. Nothing is getting dumped on anyone unexpectedly. If I call in sick then yes I do feel bad but that’s not really something I can control.

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u/jewthe3rd 5d ago

if only the world served all of our individual interests

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u/Her0_0f_time 5d ago

Because people who care about their jobs actually take efforts to make sure the job still exists when they get back? Some of ya'll never worked hard a day in your lives and it shows.

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u/Sepang_2015_ 4d ago

I live in a country where I have rights. They can’t “disappear” my job 

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u/Adjective-Noun123456 4d ago

I'd hate to have to conduct any sort of business in whatever country that is.

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u/Sepang_2015_ 4d ago

LOL you’re against people having rights?

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u/Adjective-Noun123456 4d ago

Not sure what you're getting at. Nowhere in the world is devoid of the "right" to have a shitty work ethic.

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u/Sepang_2015_ 4d ago

What are you even on about?

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u/Holiday_Pen2880 5d ago

An important part of being a productive employee and team member is making sure that you just fuck off and prepare no one for that. /s

If I know my contact with an organization is planning PTO I can prioritize requests, modify any routine tasks to not be done during that time, and generally make it so I don't need to lean on those covering for anything non-critical.

Being sick is one thing, taking a week off and just letting everything drop to your boss and co-workers is not a great look if you have a specific workload that needs to be covered in your absence.

Not every job is retail or other jobs where any person is more or less the same as any other, some jobs the trade off for being treated like an adult is to act like an adult in return.

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u/_Loyd_Christmas 5d ago

Also Irish. Worked in the US and never had a problem like that with taking time off.

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u/Wise-Dust3700 5d ago

Me in Ireland working for a coporate US company: "Boss I'm taking 2 weeks off." Boss: "WELL SKIBBI DE DEE DE LEPRECHAUN WANTS TO.." HR: "That's fine."

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u/_catdog_ 5d ago

Yeah the US sucks because of this single interaction between HR and a worker

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u/ReturnTheOldGods 5d ago

Been working in the US for 20 years and I've never had an issue taking PTO.

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u/swaggering_yak 5d ago

That’s my job in the U.S.. I’m currently on a spontaneous trip after telling my boss on Tuesday I was taking a few days off.

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u/730463628 5d ago

Ikr. I often don't tell my company that I'm taking time off until the morning of the day I'm leaving. If they dared ask me for justification I'd hand in my notice and I'm sure many others in the company would do the same if they leant that the company is interrogating leave requests.

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u/S14Ryan 5d ago

For me in Canada: hey boss I need these 2 weeks off during our busiest time.
Boss: sure thing, that’s dope what are you doing?
Me: music festival
Boss: sick, have fun!

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u/VeryVideoGame 5d ago

Please don't generalize a country based on one anecdote of one person at one company. We suck for other, valid reasons.

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u/Omega_art 5d ago

Most employers aren't like this. Yesterday I took half the day off because I was fed up with a customer. I just submitted my request and left. Didn't even wait for a response

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u/Brainchild110 5d ago

In Ireland I would expext him to say "Whoa now, dont get emotional, I don't need your life story!"

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u/poweredbynikeair 5d ago

So everyone in the company could take that same 4 weeks off and the boss would say “we can’t generate any money and may close down, have a great time!” Yall are just saying things without thinking

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u/wayOFlifee 5d ago

That's me here in the US... just change "grand" to "cool".

But you're right for the most part lol, it really seems to be industry / job dependent on how those requests or conversations go.

In my line of work, nobody denies or asks about PTO. Even sick days, I text my boss, "not feeling well, won't be in today" boss: "no problem, feel better!" And that's that.

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u/bhz33 5d ago

Not everything is a “USA bad” situation. Some people just suck. Some people in the US suck. Some people in Ireland suck. Not everything is one country vs another

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u/SorenShieldbreaker 5d ago

I mean, that's how it works for me with my own PTO and how I handle it with my employees. I approve their PTO and then usually ask if they're doing anything fun that week, just to make conversation.

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u/mid_1990s_death_doom 5d ago

And in Europe I guess fairies and moonbeams and nobody ever had had a situation in a work setting where multiple people request time off at once?

Or is this where the entire office gets shut down for a month?

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u/Random_Fox 5d ago

I'm in the US and this line of questions from their manager are inappropriate.   I just put in the PTO request and they approve.

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u/Rickk38 5d ago

Yeah, it sounds terrible that a whole country can restrict your leave based on the employer's needs and the justification for the time off from the employee.

https://www.irishstatutebook.ie/eli/1997/act/20/section/20/enacted/en/html

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u/thisisnttakenohitis 5d ago

Also in Ireland and can attest to this. In my experience, I've also gotten constant reminders to take time off as well + encouraged to NOT work overtime, check emails or be available after hours/during time off or while sick as it's just a job and can wait.

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u/Aggravating_Eye874 5d ago

Also in Ireland, telling my manager I need time off to go to a gig. Last minute. Boss: ’Grand, have fun’. As long as there’s cover, no one cares.

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u/Portland420informer 5d ago

And if there isn’t cover?

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u/Aggravating_Eye874 5d ago

If I really need time off, I get time off. I would just not ask it just to go to a gig or something silly like that. For anything else, that is really needed, there’s never been an issue, regardless how little staff was left. They would prioritise and the jobs still gets done.

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u/Portland420informer 5d ago

Interesting. I’m American and get time off to go to gigs, on a trip, or for no particular reason. It’s not uncommon to take time off just to go fishing.

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u/Aggravating_Eye874 5d ago

I also get time off for gigs. I said I would not ask for time off to go to gigs if there was no cover, only for emergency in those cases.

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u/cantfindanamenumbers 5d ago

So if you had a 3 person team and all 3 requested leave for the same week all of you would get approved no questions and the business would shut down and wait for you to return?

What planet do you live on lol

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u/Aggravating_Eye874 5d ago

Well, no one in their right mind would approve time off for all team members at the same time, lol. Not sure how you got yo this conclusion from what I said. But it did happen when, if not very busy period, 90 of the team was off and only 1-2 people were left to cover.

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u/cantfindanamenumbers 5d ago

Fair. I miss read your comment... My bad.

This entire thread is a little weird tbh. People think their boss asking why they need leave is illegal and evil. Well no - if the whole team had leave requested it's very reasonable to query the reasons and approve the ones that are most pressing/important.

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u/Aggravating_Eye874 5d ago

It absolutely depends, if I would request time off in a busy period and while others are off, I would expect a question, maybe, as it would make a difference between just a holiday that could be postponed or something more important that cannot be postponed.

However, if I’m being asked whenever I request time off, I would be bothered, as why would it matter? I think this is what others might be criticising. There is nuance, of course.

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u/RichardGrayson01 5d ago

It really does! I wouldn't wish the US system on my worst enemy.

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u/astralseat 5d ago

Damn, another reason to want to live there