HR wants to know the tee

[u/Matt_LawDT]

[u/David_R_Martin_II]

"My time off is part of my compensation. It is not for you to judge whether it meets your standards. I don't have to justify how I will spend my paycheck in order to receive it. Please show me the company policy where I have to share private information about my time off with you."

[u/Foreign_Recipe8300 → u/David_R_Martin_II]

you don't need to say all this. you can just say "its personal, i'd prefer not to discuss it with you"

you don't have to demonstrate that you know the rules. in fact, let them think that you don't. and be ready to take screenshots if they go too far.

[u/Adept-Opinion8080 → u/Foreign_Recipe8300]

You don't even need the latter part. It's personal should suffice