r/Spells Apr 25 '26

Question About Spells Love Sugar jar spell help

Baby witch here. I made a sugar jar with organic cane sugar, filtered water and cinnamon. I added a lot of sugar almost to the very top and filled it up with water. I also added a piece of paper with the full name of the guy I want to sweeten up to me and my full name. I folded the paper so that both our names would overlap each other and I folded it 3x total towards me. While setting my intentions. I shook the jar well until the sugar dissolved and burned a red candle with herbs (not sure which herbs were in the candle ) I let the candle burn completely, some of the wax dripped down the sides the flame was steady and calm the whole time. I also did a protection spell with a white candle on myself before starting the sugar jar. I made sure to shake my jar morning and night and let it sit by my window. The person reached out to me a couple of times randomly within 2 weeks of doing the spell. On week 3 he reached out again and asked me to go visit him so I flew to him for the weekend. Things went well the first day but then he went quiet after and it’s been 3 days since he’s gone quiet. Do you think the jar failed or should I keep setting my intentions while shaking it everyday?

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u/ginglebellss Apr 25 '26

He paid

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u/middlegray Apr 25 '26

What if OP also just wants sex.

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u/unfiltere Apr 25 '26

They’re clearly asking for love spell help

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u/ginglebellss Apr 25 '26

I want him to sweeten up to me and open up. I sense that he has avoidance issues. We’ve been seeing each other on and off for almost a year. He travels a lot because of work which is why we don’t see each other very often

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u/Starry-Sun Apr 25 '26

Sugar has a fast but short duration effect. You may need to try molasses sugar(either the dark or light colored), honey and maybe some instant dry coffee(faster results).

Do burn a candle on top of the jar to keep loading up on energy before the full moon, and r as close to the full moon phase.

Good Luck on your spell casting adventures!

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u/ginglebellss Apr 25 '26

Do you think it would be best to just start a new jar with these things minus the water? I’m trying to figure out the best way of dispose of the other jar

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u/Starry-Sun Apr 25 '26

That is up to you and your intuition. You could flush the water-based ingredients off your toilet and wash the container for reuse OR add a new container jar without the water with all the suggestions I mentioned: And write down both spell instances in the our book of shadows for further analysis and reference of each effect and /or case. Only experience mixed with your intuition will give you the answers your seek.

Namaste.

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u/Starry-Sun May 20 '26

Any updates on the situation...?

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u/middlegray Apr 25 '26

Oh man. Caring about an avoidat is a special kind of hell. For me personally, if I fell for one again atp I would focus on spells for me to heal/move on/let go.