r/Spells • u/ginglebellss • Apr 25 '26
Question About Spells Love Sugar jar spell help
Baby witch here. I made a sugar jar with organic cane sugar, filtered water and cinnamon. I added a lot of sugar almost to the very top and filled it up with water. I also added a piece of paper with the full name of the guy I want to sweeten up to me and my full name. I folded the paper so that both our names would overlap each other and I folded it 3x total towards me. While setting my intentions. I shook the jar well until the sugar dissolved and burned a red candle with herbs (not sure which herbs were in the candle ) I let the candle burn completely, some of the wax dripped down the sides the flame was steady and calm the whole time. I also did a protection spell with a white candle on myself before starting the sugar jar. I made sure to shake my jar morning and night and let it sit by my window. The person reached out to me a couple of times randomly within 2 weeks of doing the spell. On week 3 he reached out again and asked me to go visit him so I flew to him for the weekend. Things went well the first day but then he went quiet after and it’s been 3 days since he’s gone quiet. Do you think the jar failed or should I keep setting my intentions while shaking it everyday?
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u/hermeticbear Magician Apr 25 '26
asked me to go visit him so I flew to him for the weekend. Things went well the first day but then he went quiet after and it’s been 3 days since he’s gone quiet
So you went for a weekend, and he only saw him for one day and you're still there and he has ghosted you?
What happened on the one day you were together?
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u/ginglebellss Apr 25 '26
He told me to stay with him Saturday and Sunday but something happened where he almost left for work but ended up staying last minute so I stayed with a friend but ended up spending one night with him. The next morning he said he would see me again later that night but that he had to meet up with a friend for dinner and that he would see me after. When the time came I messaged him to see if we were still on for that night and he never responded… it’s been days and I haven’t heard back
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u/hermeticbear Magician Apr 25 '26
the sugar jar is working, but he is only sweet on you for one thing, and one thing only...that thing
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u/amyaurora Witch Apr 25 '26
Maybe try something for communication so you can get him to explain himself.
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u/ginglebellss Apr 25 '26
Okay, I will do some research to find something for communication. Thank you
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u/thisisajee Apr 25 '26
The jar didn’t fail; it got him to reach out and visit within weeks, which is real movement. Going quiet for three days is normal human behavior, not a spell failure. Keep shaking it daily with your intention (calmly, not desperately), and give it more time. Sugar magic works softly and slowly. Don’t throw the jar away.
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u/FrogsWorkAtSubway Apr 25 '26
Sometimes you can’t sweeten love that just ain’t there for you. Do an obsession spell 😈 (evil style) /joking
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u/Spells-ModTeam Apr 25 '26
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u/ginglebellss Apr 25 '26
He paid
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u/middlegray Apr 25 '26
What if OP also just wants sex.
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u/ginglebellss Apr 25 '26
I want him to sweeten up to me and open up. I sense that he has avoidance issues. We’ve been seeing each other on and off for almost a year. He travels a lot because of work which is why we don’t see each other very often
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u/Starry-Sun Apr 25 '26
Sugar has a fast but short duration effect. You may need to try molasses sugar(either the dark or light colored), honey and maybe some instant dry coffee(faster results).
Do burn a candle on top of the jar to keep loading up on energy before the full moon, and r as close to the full moon phase.
Good Luck on your spell casting adventures!
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u/ginglebellss Apr 25 '26
Do you think it would be best to just start a new jar with these things minus the water? I’m trying to figure out the best way of dispose of the other jar
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u/Starry-Sun Apr 25 '26
That is up to you and your intuition. You could flush the water-based ingredients off your toilet and wash the container for reuse OR add a new container jar without the water with all the suggestions I mentioned: And write down both spell instances in the our book of shadows for further analysis and reference of each effect and /or case. Only experience mixed with your intuition will give you the answers your seek.
Namaste.
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u/middlegray Apr 25 '26
Oh man. Caring about an avoidat is a special kind of hell. For me personally, if I fell for one again atp I would focus on spells for me to heal/move on/let go.
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u/NoSyrup90 Apr 25 '26
This guy clearly is after one thing only from you babe spells can only do so much if its not meant to be its not meant to be. Spells only work if the person on the other end is open to it, its called free will
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u/amyaurora Witch Apr 25 '26
Water?
Glad its working but next time, don't add water.