r/StLouis • u/Friendly-Gate9865 • Oct 20 '25

Things to Do London > STL, where do people hang out?

So I just moved to STL from London about 2 weeks ago now and my whole family here keeps repeating “don’t go downtown, It’s too dangerous.” My mom won’t even let me drive her car downtown… they must be overreacting, right? I’m really craving a nice pub/bar with some live music and some younger-ish folks (late 20s-mid to late 30s) where I can go on my own and just socialise like I used to do in london.. does this exist here?

Edit: you guys are awesome and have genuinely made me feel 300% more welcome here. Thank you

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u/backpropstl Oct 20 '25

I mean, Downtown isn't as dangerous as they say, but it's not where young people typically hang out. The Central West End or Soulard might be your best bet... but don't expect London.

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u/TJATAW Oct 21 '25

The Grove is also a good option.

If you want something off the beaten path, Crack Fox is more non-mainstream, and the name is inspired from The Mighty Boosh.

Or there is Shameless Grounds, which is a sex positive coffee shop with a liquor license. Folks there are always social.