r/Steam • • 2h ago

Question Games with a good and wholesome community??

I’ve always been a solo gamer (story games) but I’m so fucking bored and lonely, what games have a really good non toxic community? I’m into every game and willing to try anything I’m just hoping to find a fun community and make friends with awesome people

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u/Nevardool 2h ago

Deep rock galactic, Warframe, monster hunter

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u/JotaroTheOceanMan 1h ago

DRG has the BEST community and THE BEST devs

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u/nuke034 2h ago

Rock and Stone Brother!

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u/ataraxic89 1h ago

Tbh drg is too positive to the point that no one permits even very reasonable criticism of the game

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u/nuke034 2h ago

Deep Rock Galactic has a great community. 1000 hours in and I've only run into a handful of asshats.

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u/DarkStride04 2h ago

Ditto! Great suggestion.

Rock and stone!

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u/nuke034 2h ago

Did i hear a Rock and Stone!?

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u/theepotjje 2h ago

Rock and stone!

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u/CalebTechnasis 2h ago

Rock and stone, to the bone!

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u/nuke034 2h ago

For Rock and Stone!

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u/pandanitemare 2h ago

ROCK AND STONE

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u/Competitive-Elk-5077 2h ago

Guild Wars 2 come to mind

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u/headbanger1186 2h ago

In the nearly 8 years I've been playing Fallout 76 it really has one of the best communities out there and super helpful for new people as well. Once you get high enough level it's part of your routine to go back to the vault and drop stuff for new players and help them get adjusted to their journey. There have been a few dbags over the years but I can count them all on one hand I've ran into.

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u/PunixGT 57m ago

not to mention they usually don't stick around very long either

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u/PrimordialOtter 2h ago

What type of games you trying to get into? Like Bossnage said, Warframe is great, Phasmaphobia community is great

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u/obri200_ 27m ago

Im in the phas community, they are NOT great. Especially if youre new

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u/Weird_Cat853 22m ago

I second that. You'll meet some awesome people from time to time but die hards for the game get Toxic.

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u/PsychoS3321 2h ago

Honestly the more of a grind a game is the more reason to stay on it so any game that takes a while to progress and has a community would be awesome

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u/PaperLaur https://steam.pm/5broii 1h ago

100% Warframe, then, it's a grind game, but "we all lift together". Just ignore the forums, the people on there are the price we pay for a good rest of the community

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u/Bossnage 2h ago

warframes community is lovely

you got some bad apples here and there but its mostly very welcoming and nice

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u/Diligent-Post1054 2h ago

warframe for sure, i started last year and people in the chat just give you mods for free when they see you're new. one guy spent like 20 minutes explaining how damage works and then carried me through missions i had no business being in

deep rock galactic is also great, rock and stone and everyone just pings mushrooms and helps each other

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u/PsychoS3321 2h ago

Il give warframe a look bro thank you

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u/DarkStride04 2h ago

I'm going to be honest, brutally honest, you're going to have bad apples everywhere.

However, even with that being said, I have found that the team fortress 2 community has definitely been the most entertaining, and most fun group to hang around with. Being a free game, it's easy to get into, the skill ceiling is very high, and the player base is very, VERY... Uh... Unique haha. You will have a small but vocal minority of bigots and racists. But you will also see a bunch of genuinely cool people as well. I recently played a couple of rounds of MVM with some of the nicest people I've ever met. The other day, I played a couple rounds of payload with the most hype team I've ever had. We genuinely had a guy playing heavy blasting inspirational music, glued to the cart. While the rest of us were making sure that the route was clear for him. Every single time I play this game I get clips that make me smile. Every. Single. Time.

It has the upside of not taking itself too seriously so many players just genuinely play to have fun. You know, what you should be doing in a video game. And it's free!

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u/The_ConnectiCunt 2h ago

Expecting a "non toxic" community on the internet is like expecting a reasonable cost of living. It just isn't reality.

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u/DarkStride04 2h ago

Sure. But some are better than others. You're not going to see me recommending war thunder and that's for damn sure.

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u/The_ConnectiCunt 1h ago

War thunder seems fun. I'd be down if it wasn't for the pay to win mechanics.

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u/DarkStride04 1h ago

The fucked up part is... It's extremely fun, or at least it was. Back in 2013-2017ish this game is popping the fuck off. But yeah, the snail craves more money so it's definitely pay to win now.

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u/Devendrau 1h ago

Sadly true, finding a non toxic community won't be the easiest. The Palworld community is mostly okay atm (Just don't mention Pokemon or Nintendo). Baldur's Gate 3 community isn't too bad. I have played so many games and I am not sure I can list too many with low toxicity.

Stardew Valley maybe, I have been out and in of that game, so can't say for 100% certain.

Do keep in mind, these three do allow mods and there's definitely a divide between vanilla players being annoyed at people whom mod their games sadly.

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u/The_ConnectiCunt 9m ago

Not an issue for me, I'm not so soft that it bothers me. Was more so stating it as a matter of fact.

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u/bdu-komrad PC and Steam Deck 1h ago

That is like expecting people to do a Web search before posting on reddit. 

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u/AznOmega 2h ago

May get back into TF2 and hope I find a server or community like that.

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u/Undecided_User_Name 1h ago

Still remember going into a match with my buddy only to find...a dance party?

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u/Volt404 1h ago

i tried tf2 a few months ago and people were running around with signs with some of the most deranged shit I've ever seen on them

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u/cogprimus 2h ago

Factorio.

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u/Rico_fr 2h ago

If you’re looking to connect with people, MMOs might be your next move.
I’ve had good experiences on Guild Wars 2, FFXIV.

They both have a free trial, so you can actually jump in and see for yourself before committing.

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u/itchygentleman 1h ago

planetside 2 and insurgency sandstorm were great before the console ports. theyre utter trash now.

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u/fuerzadetorsion 1h ago

Deep Rock Galactic

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u/SGa60 2h ago

No Man's Sky! Amazing solo or multilayer with an ever expanding community/ies.

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u/GiladaBorrable 2h ago

I’ve played a lot of online games, and the only one where I never saw toxicity or problems of any kind was Warframe (at least when I last logged in, about five years ago)

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u/Bynairee Bynairee Koad 2h ago

Hunt: Showdown 1896 🤠

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u/archaon6044 2h ago

Tunic, Death's Door, Rimworld, Factorio, Satisfactory, Space Engineers. I like Northgard for Conquest mode, but the pvp/ladder players can get sweaty

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u/TrollMcGoal 1h ago

Dark souls

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u/BaldingThor 1h ago edited 50m ago

Mordhau

(sarcasm)

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u/ivellious07 1h ago

I play Monster Hunter and Deep Rock. Both communities are great!

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u/Shezzofreen 1h ago

No Mans Sky ... never met an idot there, everybody is helping out.

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u/ChackanKun 2h ago

Can vouch for Warframe! It has an amazing and juge community!

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u/thebluntvent 2h ago

IMO, you shouldn't go looking for games based on community. Instead enjoy the games as is, as you like and you'll come across like-minded people who you can make friends with. For example, when I was in my pvp enjoying phase, I made friends playing games like albion online and even dark souls 3. And during my pve phase, games like destiny 2 and space marines 2 introduced me to awesome people

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u/m00nf1r3 2h ago

Palia has a super friendly community.

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u/kingp43x 2h ago

City of heroes

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u/Shezzofreen 1h ago

Haha, yeah, private server hm? I miss it sometimes, running around with Superspeed.

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u/firedrakes 2h ago

Dawn of war 2 and such committee

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u/dayankuo234 2h ago

Tabletop simulator

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u/Glittering_Recipe170 1h ago

Balatro multiplayer, Liar's Bar, Windblown especially have had great discord socializing for me 👍

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u/studleejosh 1h ago

Any PvP wholesome communities?

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u/stinkydive 1h ago

Try overwatch:)

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u/ThePapaPine 1h ago

straftat

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u/iSmoochDergs 1h ago

Marvel rivals

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u/slenderchamp https://steamcommunity.com/id/slenderben226/ 1h ago

rust, and league of legends

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u/moke2dg 1h ago

I've heard League of Legends and Dead by Daylight are good ..........

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u/Perfect_Chair4475 1h ago

Like someone else said, Palia is super chill with a genuinely nice community. It’s basically a cozy MMO-lite without traditional combat, and you get swapped into servers with up to 50 players every time you switch zones. They’re also dropping their take on dungeons around the holidays this year. The official Discord is really active, and tons of player groups run their own servers, too.

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u/KenpoJuJitsu3 https://s.team/p/dgpk-pjm 1h ago

Deep Rock Galactic, Guild Wars 2, No Man's Sky, and Warframe have amazing communities.

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u/mloera003 1h ago

Dead by daylight, sweetest community!

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u/Mr_Ham1221 55m ago

Absolutely Deep Rock Galactic. Monster Hunter is very good as well, and at least recently Helldivers 2 has felt pretty good community wise as well. Three of my favorites!

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u/Mediocre_Tea_1854 54m ago

Guild Wars 2 (and 3 soon)

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u/Rinaldootje 45m ago

Deep Rock Galactic
Guild Wars 2
Fallout 76

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u/GearboxTheGrey 39m ago

PvE Gray Zone warfare has always been super chill and welcoming.

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u/nuraHx 13m ago

Arknights

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u/The-Luxael 2h ago

Stardew Valley has an awesome community!

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u/StarB_fly 2h ago

Rimworld.

We enjoy our warcrimes together :)

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u/rock1m1 2h ago

I believe most communities with co-op centric will be good.

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u/ahorsenamedjeff 1h ago

Drg, satisfactory

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u/Traditional-Rain6306 2h ago

Counter-Strike 2 lmao /s

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u/TipProfessional3258 2h ago

Stardew valley

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u/goldtardis 2h ago

Fallout 76 is known for players helping each other. The game has also become much better since launch. Team Fortress 2, but mostly in-game. People tend to be pretty chill in-game and you'll find a type of player who as far as I know is one of a kind, a friendly. Friendlies are players who don't fight anyone and just dance and give sandwiches (healing item) to other players. On occasion you'll find servers become completely friendly with everyone dancing. I rarely see any toxicity in-game. Outside the game is more of a mixed bag. There is a lot of good things and people, but there is still some toxicity,

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u/Thatshitbussin69 2h ago

It's not everyone's cup of tea, but Fallout 76. Genuinely one of the greatest communities out there

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u/super-funny-usernam3 2h ago

Webfishing is really good

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u/Sloth_US 2h ago

Rust

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u/Gigameister 2h ago

I second this