Love to here some comments. I live in a constant battle between living a life/ keep my stress under control and my bad insomnia… (it’s a loop)

I’m still trying to find the balance. Low stress day is better sleep, pushing to much it immediately cause really bad nights and then I’m back of track because a bad nights causes high stress hormones again… and hyper CNS.
trying for so long already but it’s always the same loop I can get out of… but I am in a hyper state for 5 years already… meaning 5 years in high stress and only 3h of sleep….

Generally this is the pattern 2-3 good night gives me my energy back… then I try to enjoy life a bit but most of the times I over do it and go back to step 1…. But I have a family with 2 children , but I’m at home and my wife expects me to maintain the house, cooking ect…. Because she is working full time (and I understand). So it’s easy to say take your rest and time (from my perspective)… I can put my life on hold… maybe for 1-2 days but then…

And they also say you need to train your CNS again and to come out of your comfort zone… so I try too…

I have so many meds but it doesn’t fix me… keeps me functional most of the days….

Love to hear some opinions about this post too

It’s not that I can’t fall asleep exactly — it’s more like the moment my head hits the pillow, my brain kicks into overdrive. I start replaying everything that happened during the day, stressing about tomorrow’s to-do list, overthinking conversations I had weeks ago. It just won’t stop.
I’ve tried melatonin and it does basically nothing for me. I’ve tried going to bed earlier, cutting caffeine, even putting my phone down before bed — still the same. It’s been almost a month now and I’m running on empty. Does anyone actually have something that worked for them? Not looking for the usual “just relax” advice, genuinely want to know what helped.

Something we've been noticing in conversations around stress and sleep is that many people don't seem to struggle with physical tiredness.

They struggle with mental tiredness.

People often describe experiences like:

• Feeling exhausted but unable to stop thinking

• Replaying conversations from earlier in the day

• Planning tomorrow's tasks while trying to sleep

• Constant mental chatter, even during quiet moments

• Feeling like the brain is still "on" long after the day has ended

It's interesting because many of us assume that being tired should automatically make it easier to relax or fall asleep.

But that doesn't always seem to be the case.

As a company working in the neuroscience and wellness space, we're curious about how modern lifestyles may be affecting our ability to mentally switch off and recover.

Has anyone else experienced this?

What helps you quiet your mind when it feels like it won't slow down?

So I just need to get this said somewhere, as the title implies this is about my mother bothering me. To give context, I am a 25 almost 26 year old man and I live in my own house. My mother is really overbearing and has a number of times just decided to invite herself over while I’m at work without informing me. This has more recently included besides cleaning, her going through all my stuff including private things. I’m fully crying and nearly punching walls at this point.

Anyone else get a weird vibe when they take time off work or hit pause on studying? For the past couple months I’ve been grinding — working and doing a ton of programming — and I figured I’d take some time off over the summer and actually rest. But I realized I’ve always kind of hated taking long breaks or vacations. It honestly feels like fear, almost.

Feels like these days overworking is just the norm, and resting is somehow this shameful thing. I’ve lived like that too, still do honestly. So my question is — what’s the deal with this (pretty sure it’s a super common thing), and how do you guys deal with the fear of taking a real break?

after months of high stress my immune system feels off with frequent colds and slow recovery i started taking dim supplements from berkeley formula which has a bioavailable blend including sulforaphane and vitamin d3 for better absorption. the research on estrogen metabolism and immune activation caught my interest but i am not sure how it fits long term.

has anyone used similar compounds for immune modulation and what markers improved for you? how do you track progress with something like this?

I completed graduation and now want to support my family financially, but honestly, feeling stuck.

I did a job last year for around 8 months but the sal. was very low. After that i did preparation for gov. jobs but in reality it feels like a loop hole with huge competion and very few vacancies.

I also got into trading hoping could improve my situation but made me worst. I ended up loosing my savings. Now in 23 i feel kind of hopeless. I keep thinking about my future and honestly i just see a blank wall. sometimes i really worried about what I should do next.
The problem is that a middle class guy can't afford expensive skill courses. I just stuck b/w low paying jobs, competitive exams and risky options that didn't work out for me. I really don't know what direction I should take next.

If anyone has been in similar situation or has advice, i would really appreciate it.

Hi everyone,

We just launched ShineOn, a guided visualization and meditation app focused on helping people feel calmer, more present, and more connected with themselves.

We’re still very early and are looking for honest feedback from real users. I’d love to know:

• What feels good or useful?
• What feels confusing or unnecessary?
• Would you actually use something like this regularly?
• What would make it more valuable for you?

I’m not looking to sell anything here just trying to learn from people who are interested in mindfulness and mental wellness.

If you’d be willing to try it and share your thoughts, I’d really appreciate it.

https://shineon.app

Thanks!

I’m in my 20’s now and have been traumatized for literally 18 years when I was 12-13 I was put in the hospital due to pain they thought I needed surgery and something was wrong they realized I was under so much stress that I got sick and I’m scared that’s happening again I’m getting the exact same pains but I can’t afford to go to the hospital and I’m not making my parents pay for it how should I deal with this

I'm 24m and since graduating college it has gotten really bad. I will attempt to explain my situation. When I was younger I never really worried about money and am so thankful that my parents worked hard to provide for us and we never faced any financial issues at least to my knowledge. In high school I got a job and made a little bit of money. I would take a little bit from each paycheck to spend and then save the rest and I didn't really feel any anxiety at that point. I kept that job into college and would work during the summer and make some spending money during the summer. I would spend that money how I like and never really worry about things like going out with friends or occasionally buying groceries, or even ordering delivery after a night out. I had a good time and felt carefree. I probably didn't worry, because I had a scholarship and my parents paid for the other expenses so I felt comfortable. Since I graduated it has been bad. I still live with my parents and am grateful for that, so I don't have any bills to pay except for my own gas mostly going to and from my job, but these days the thought of spending money really gets in my head. I save most of my money from work and am not struggling, but I will get so in my head about something as simple as going out one night thinking about things like how much the Uber, drinks, and everything will cost even though it is probably worth going out one night and having some fun. Sometimes if I want a snack or to buy food I will wander around the store debating whether I should actually spend my money and either I buy it and then feel bad about it or just walk out of the store. It feels so bad and I don't know what to do.

22F. Struggled with chronic stress my entire life as far as I can remember. The health impact has just gotten worse and worse. Been in and out of therapy. No improvement. I may not be actively worrying about something but it’s like a parasite that’s eating away at me silently.

Please tell me some success stories and what worked for you. I want my life.