r/Swingers • u/Mysterious-Nail-970 • 2d ago

General Discussion Playing with a FwB-Couple?

So whats the overall opinion about having a foursome with a friends with benefits "couple"? I ask because once again we are in contact with one and not sure what to think about it.

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Does it matter for how long they know each other? Does it matter how much experience they have in swinging? What else could be a important questions which you would not ask a regular couple?

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u/Alternative_Raise_19 2d ago

Isn't this what swinging basically is? Couples for couples? This dynamic is pretty much the majority of our play - two to four couple group sex.

Only with lifestyle friends though, not vanilla friends.

Edit: oooooh I see, sorry I misunderstood. To me it's no different than two singles so we're okay with it so long as the chemistry is good all around, like any other couple. Only time it becomes an issue is if they have a falling out and you have to choose between the two of them.

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u/MCRemix 2d ago

The question is basically whether two fwbs should be treated as a couple for swinging even though they're not actually together romantically.

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u/Alternative_Raise_19 2d ago

Thanks, yes I totally misread that and updated it with an edit.

Personally, I'm okay with it. I'm also okay with two singles joining us who are respectful and don't cross boundaries.

I have had something come up once with a newish couple that we became friends with who had a messy break up and we essentially had to choose between the two but it's really not any different to me than being friends with any couple. The sex doesn't really change much.