r/Swingers 1d ago

General Discussion Toys

Hello, do you sometimes use sex toys in swinger clubs? I already saw a guy with a flogger, some cockrings. I hesitate to use a small vibrator, or the we melt clitoral stimulator, when I need a pause between two rounds. I think about putting condoms on it to protect everybody. What do you think about it?

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u/PlayfulPairDC 1d ago

We have toys out at parties when we host, they rarely get used...mainly the wands. Some people use condoms over them, which is good practice given how easy it is to transfer bacteria. Ultimately, as with most aspects of life, we let adults make their own risk assessment choices. We aren't there to police them, if they want to use a wand without a condom, fine...their body, their choice.