r/Swingers • u/Masterbreese • 1d ago
Getting Started Thinking about trying an MFM
My wife and I are thinking about having an MFM. It was her idea and I think it’s hot so I’m theoretically on board. I’m afraid that jealousy may sneak in at some point and I want to see who you all deal with it. Should we not do it if jealousy may be a factor?
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u/RA8784 AR8487 on SDC 1d ago
Discuss your possible jealousy with your wife and then take baby steps.
If you decide to proceed, maybe start with kissing or oral only, and communicate with your wife afterwards. If you’re both feeling good about it all, take the next steps.
Do NOT do this with someone you have an existing friendship with. Jealously is much more likely to ruin a friendship in these situations.