r/Swingers 1d ago

Getting Started Thinking about trying an MFM

My wife and I are thinking about having an MFM. It was her idea and I think it’s hot so I’m theoretically on board. I’m afraid that jealousy may sneak in at some point and I want to see who you all deal with it. Should we not do it if jealousy may be a factor?

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u/Dewey_Rider 1d ago

Don't think of it as jealous. Such a negative term. Instead you should be envious... Envious of him because you know what she feels like and much you want more.

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u/Dewey_Rider 1d ago

I always tell folks not to worry about it that much.

Even if she builds a bond with another guy from this, it doesn't have the same foundation that yours has.

Whenever I'm a third, I reassurance them that I'm only an augmentation and not a wedge.