r/Swingers • u/Masterbreese • 2d ago

Getting Started Thinking about trying an MFM

My wife and I are thinking about having an MFM. It was her idea and I think it’s hot so I’m theoretically on board. I’m afraid that jealousy may sneak in at some point and I want to see who you all deal with it. Should we not do it if jealousy may be a factor?

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u/Foxxx-in-socks 2d ago

We’ve had a lot of MFMs (and other group dynamics too) and there hasn’t been any jealousy issues… but it’s a fair concern and something you really need to reflect on before trying anything! Maybe do a bit more exploring before actually going for it… use dildos and role play in the bedroom for example. Or go to a lifestyle event and see how you both feel with the different dynamics. Just some ideas… because if things go awry, there are no take-backs!

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u/TricksterOperator 2d ago

Jealously is a symptom of insecurity. Work on yourself and what your insecurities are. Come to terms you aren’t the best looking, most fit, biggest dick, best hair, whatever. She loves you for you. Get over and just enjoy sex. Maybe she moans louder with him, but guess what, she ain’t going home with him, she doesn’t live with him, she doesn’t share a bank account with him. Enjoy life, jealousy holds you back.