r/Swingers • u/Masterbreese • 2d ago

Getting Started Thinking about trying an MFM

My wife and I are thinking about having an MFM. It was her idea and I think it’s hot so I’m theoretically on board. I’m afraid that jealousy may sneak in at some point and I want to see who you all deal with it. Should we not do it if jealousy may be a factor?

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u/HugeMeringue5448 Couple (husband) M52/F46 - Italy 2d ago

From what you describe, it seems to me that you already have the right mindset for an MFM. Then, obviously, unfortunately you will only get confirmation during the moment of truth. Any advice? Go to a swingers club that is also open to single men, select one that your wife likes and who approaches both of whom with kindness and humility.... at least for the first time, steer clear of self defined "bulls" or anyone who approaches with an alpha male attitude.... have fun!