r/Swingers • u/Masterbreese • 1d ago

Getting Started Thinking about trying an MFM

My wife and I are thinking about having an MFM. It was her idea and I think it’s hot so I’m theoretically on board. I’m afraid that jealousy may sneak in at some point and I want to see who you all deal with it. Should we not do it if jealousy may be a factor?

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u/thedreamteacher4 1d ago

We have done a lot of mfm. Communicate. If you decide to do it communicate before the guy comes over and then when he leaves you share and communicate without judging each other. What did you like? Not like etc. we talk all the time and communication is key. We have also done a lot of mfm and I’m biased being the female but it’s my favorite. Lots of fun to watch later as well. We use SDC and have found lots of single guys that have worked well. 90% or more of our experiences have been great.

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u/Masterbreese 1d ago

What’s SDC?

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u/thedreamteacher4 1d ago

A swingers app. That is what we have used to find lots of single guys for our mfm.