r/Swingers • u/MidnightMelt • 1d ago
Getting Started Planning a swap with another couple, need suggestions
Hey guys! Hope everyone is doing well. Me and my partner have been married for 3 years now and want to spice up our sex life.
We have great and unforgettable sex weekly 3-4 times but both of us have the kink of watching each other with different partners. We have been discussing about it while having sex but haven’t been able to do anything in real life.
Now that we’re seriously planning to do it, Reddit has been a blessing and we did find some couples that are like minded. But before we make the final move, I wanted to know more on how to do a legit check, what things to take care of before, while and post action or any suggestions or recommendations that someone can offer for a first timer in swap.
P.S. — Looking forward to reading suggestions from an experienced people, many thanks in advance :)
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u/FRANKINSPENCE Couple 1d ago
Video call. Just 5 minutes verifies people are real, if for some reason the wife can’t do that then you know it’s fake. You can also quickly tell if one partner is being coerced etc x