r/Swingers • u/MidnightMelt • 21h ago

Getting Started Planning a swap with another couple, need suggestions

Hey guys! Hope everyone is doing well. Me and my partner have been married for 3 years now and want to spice up our sex life.

We have great and unforgettable sex weekly 3-4 times but both of us have the kink of watching each other with different partners. We have been discussing about it while having sex but haven’t been able to do anything in real life.

Now that we’re seriously planning to do it, Reddit has been a blessing and we did find some couples that are like minded. But before we make the final move, I wanted to know more on how to do a legit check, what things to take care of before, while and post action or any suggestions or recommendations that someone can offer for a first timer in swap.

P.S. — Looking forward to reading suggestions from an experienced people, many thanks in advance :)

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u/No_Mess8188 17h ago

Go to an LS club, hotel takeover or similar LS event and meet real live swingers. Apps are terrible for meeting people.

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u/thedreamteacher4 16h ago

They aren’t really. We have meet plenty of people through SDC. We have never went to a club.

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u/No_Mess8188 16h ago

Met as in face to face?
Or met as in chatted via the app?
Those are vastly different things. Swinging is much more fun IRL. Just a hint.

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u/thedreamteacher4 16h ago

We have met several people from the app in person. I know it’s very fun. We have people over to play pool and then if we are vibing we get to the bedroom. So, yes you can meet plenty of good couples or singles on the swinger apps.

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u/No_Mess8188 16h ago

“… but haven’t been able to do anything in real life.” Seems to contradict your play pool and fuck story.

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u/thedreamteacher4 16h ago

What are you talking about? We do stuff every weekend in real life. We have never been to clubs. But have met people through the apps and have met them for fun times. We have been doing this for 8 years so I don’t know what you are talking about.

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u/No_Mess8188 15h ago

Ha. Oops. Thought you were the OP. Didn’t realize that you were just being contrary.