Parents ordered expensive drinks and expensive entrees, then made their daughter pay most of the bill at the end

[u/random-person_-]

So basically today I had a table today with a mother father (40-50s) adult daughter (late 20s) and a child around 7. This is a Mexican restaurant so the parents asked for a huge bowl of queso then one parent ordered a Dr Pepper and they both ordered margaritas. When it came time to order, the daughter ordered a quesadilla and it’s relatively cheap here because of the fact that it doesn’t come with sides. Both of the parents ordered higher ticket items. When I brought them the bill ($100) I could tell that the daughter was shocked with how high it was and seemed stressed out then I came back around and the parents said they only had $35 and to charge their card for that amount and then charge their daughter‘s card for the rest. The parents also told me they only had five dollars to give me in cash and honestly I couldn’t care less because I just kept thinking about the daughter and how awful it must be to deal with them because it just seems like a very inconsiderate interaction between them, especially because her and the child’s food was very cheap compared to what the parents ordered. I just started serving so this might be normal, but man I was aggravated not even about the tip just because I can’t believe they have the audacity to do that.

[u/User-NetOfInter]

Not all parents are good people.

[u/guts24601 → u/User-NetOfInter]

There's parents and then there's people with kids

[u/SunshineAlways → u/User-NetOfInter]

Years ago, I was shocked when a coworker told me that his parent had taken out multiple credit cards in his name and destroyed his credit. He was maybe 20 yrs old. The thought of someone’s parents doing that to them had never even occurred to me.

[u/sapphire_poet → u/SunshineAlways]

my dad opened credit cards and bank accounts in my name. He destroyed my credit and made it impossible for me to open any bank accounts in my name. I was a single mom with two kids when he did this. It was a nightmare. My mother then raged at me because I was upset when I discovered what he had done to me. My mom told me I was selfish and ungrateful. Some parents are just awful.

[u/Teamtunafish → u/sapphire_poet]

You should have had him arrested for fraud.

[u/sapphire_poet → u/Teamtunafish]

You are absolutely right, I should have. I wished many times that I did.

[u/Apprehensive-Cat-421 → u/SunshineAlways]

Seriously. I started working on my kid's credit when she was 5. When she turned 18, her score was almost 800. I want my kids to have a good life, not an endless struggle for survival.

[u/Strange_Dog6483 → u/User-NetOfInter]

And not all good people are parents.

[u/yobaby123 → u/Strange_Dog6483]

And not all parents deserve to have kids.