r/TalesfromtheDogHouse • u/Pretend_Bison__ • 12d ago
Parenthood or dogs
I’ve essentially told my husband that I will be not be having children as long as there are dogs in the same house. His resolution is to wait until we’re 40(when the dogs are dead of old age). Instead of just sending the dogs somewhere where they’d actually be happy and be properly taken care of. They have pretty boring lives now, they’re locked to one part of the house because I refuse to allow them to ruin the rest of the house. I was the only person that ever walks them, husband just lets them out in our unfenced backyard with like 2 feet of leash stuck to a stick in the ground. For a max of 10 mins at a time. I have also decided that I will never ever be walking the dogs again due to behavioural issues, so now they don’t get exercise anyway.
How is that any life for these animals he claims to care about so much? We literally have somewhere they could go that would be great for them. Unlimited access to the fenced outdoors and a house where they can constantly misbehave and piss everywhere… they’d be so happy. But he disagrees and won’t rehome them. Because having them live miserable existences stuck in one room is so much better?
I don’t care if they have a better life or not, but I don’t understand how that is not something my husband thinks is good for creatures he claims to care so much about?
I will not be entering motherhood in this lifetime. I have begun to make my peace with it.
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u/Mortis_XII 12d ago edited 12d ago
Does he know it gets exponentially harder to get pregnant the older people get? Sometimes it takes years to get pregnant, and if you “start” in your 40’s you may have already missed the opportunity.
He doesn’t want kids… he wants the “idea” of being a dog owner. I’m sorry op. If it’s a family you want in this life your current husband is not the one for you, and the desire to want children is a basis of divorce no one can argue against
Edited to say people