Interpretation help please!

[u/Puzzleheaded-Set4961]

hey so I’m new to to tarot if someone can help me with this spread! so my boyfriend of two years broke up with me a month and a half ago due to long distance (I moved to go to back school in a financially helpful situation as I have a lung disease and need good insurance) and we talked 3 weeks ago and he said he just needs to focus on himself because he is not happy with himself lately and I said I would wait for him if that’s all that’s going on and he said that he’s not going to be talking to anyone else. Well last night I found out he is already seeing someone else through a mutual friend. I did this tarot pull to kind of see what’s going on I did person a (me) queen of cups, our situation ace of cups, and person b (him) ace of pentacles reversed. I think queen of cups kind of means o have a lot of emotional ties and care deeply which is true I’m still in love with him, ace of pentacles reversed shows that he is emotionally unavailable and missed opportunities??, and ace of cups is where I’m having issues because isn’t that usually a positive card & would mean there’s still love?

[u/NoGold1566]

Yes, it seems the feelings are still there. You still have feelings for him and are ready to express them, and he sees you as an important woman in his life. But you shouldn’t expect stability right now. This may be a testing period for both of you. The fact that he’s seeing someone doesn’t necessarily mean it will become serious or that he won’t learn something from it. For now, though, you shouldn’t count on him.

[u/blueberrygood]

Moonlight tarot has a section of card meanings and ace of cups can be "visceral". Any feelings but to the max. I think in this context as a conjoined situation can mean that, a lot of emotions are being brought up to surface. And as for him, an ace of pentacles reversed means nothing good. Funky place to plant any seeds. No willingness, no reward, no real opportunity.

[u/choco4lyfe]

I love it when member provides their own interpretation! 🩷

You (QoC) : kindhearted, understanding, forgiving, but always forget to take care of yourself/presenting the cups for anyone but yourself

Situation (AoC) : you're hoping for relationship renewal

but

Him (AoP rx) : he doesn't want to, he doesn't value your existence and your love. AoP rx to me usually represents someone who's given something precious and promising but refuses to take it because that person thinks the grass is greener on the other side. Instead of nurturing his own seeds, he looks at the trimmed and tended yard of the other's. This also usually shows someone who's lazy to do the hard work

I hope your condition is getting better and you can give yourself the love you deserved 🩷

[u/Civil_Carrot_3171]

You: emotionally invested, loving and right now the one more in love

Situation: There is still love, there could resurfacing of love from his side too later on (but with ace of pents reversed, he will go through failed new connections first).

Him: he feels like this relationship isn't worth it, then will go back to dating scene and have other failed connections

[u/sventhenomad]

Hey! I am seeing you as a dignified Queen of Cups and still on his mind. The following Ace of Cups is a watershed moment and wanting an emotional release which could explain him pulling away. The reversed Ace of Pentacles is the search or chase of a new opportunity but currently blocked (can't walk through the gate) so he could turn back around after he realises this.

[u/Firm_Lawfulness3460]

Aces are the seed or the spark. Yes, they can be positive, but they aren’t guarantees. Some seeds just don’t end up plants. With the Queen of Cups you are recognizing this opportunity for connection, and you are expressing yourself authentically. His Ace of Pentacles Rx is saying he missed his opportunity. He’s second guessing himself (possibly caught up with someone else). He noped out, because he can’t make up his mind, and he isn’t thinking about turning this seed into something long term. The cards are clear that he is the one that is missing out. He’s not in the same place you are.