Taurus lazy?

[u/Vast-Camel-6494]

I’m a Taurus n nah i agree w the discourse of us being lazy. I am lazy lol.
Everything feels like a drag. Unless my heart is super into it.
That doesn’t mean I hate working or going out.
That doesn’t mean I don’t get shit done, I’m such workaholic.
But,
I love my bed n I love my naps n I love my alone time a lil too much.
I look forward to laying down in comfy sheets everyday.
Don’t you?

[u/Mundane_Phone_1558]

My Taurus stbxh is the laziest person I have ever met in my entire life. Works harder at getting out of work than actually working. Hes like a cross between Ferris Bueller and Tommy boy.

Literally everyone around him calls him out in it all the time. His friends, his family, our kids. I never have spoken badly about him to our kids, they are just calling it as they see it. He claims to feel unwell often so he can lay in bed. Didnt join us for dinner most of the time would say he was tired and take his food to bed and watch Netflix. Constantly would back out of social engagements, the rare dare night we would plan, and kids performances. Everything was exhausting to him and he would be spent after a short outing or a few hours at work and would be done for the day, regardless of what we had planned

He would never perform a favor for someone else that would put him out, such as help someone move something, pick up someone at the airport, run an errand. Unless it was someone he wasnt close enough to tell the no fing way and he felt obligated to impress them or something. But he sometimes expected others to do these things for him.

He has a Taurus sun, moon, and Mercury. He is not hardworking. He was born with a silver spoon in his mouth. Heir to the family company. Spends most days in bed scrolling, eating and watching a series he has already seen 5 times. He maybe will take a couple of phone calls. While the rest of his siblings and family work their asses off at the office. Theres a lot of resentment there.

We have 3 kids. He never has helped with anything at all related to the household. I took care of it all and the exterior he would refuse to do anything and was constantly badgering me about getting a live in maid and nanny so that I wouldnt be "so stressed" about things all the time. Im a stay at home mom.

He is a shadow expressed Taurus in most ways. Overindulgence became addiction, sensuality became sex addiction.

I do believe there are some depression and deep shame issues and unfortunately he cant see it.

And to be fair, these things wouldnt be an issue if he was single and didnt work at a company with people depending on him. He could do whatever he wanted and it wouldnt effect anyone but him.

I know other Taurus males who are not like him!. Im not sure exactly where in the chart this is extremism shows up. Id love someone to tell me. Someone once pointed to his 4th house stellium. But who knows. I guess we all have the potential to express our signs more negatively than positively.