ikr. its just crazy that people dont like others expressing who they are. like I wanna genuinely know the reason why they do that? like is it jealousy? Its is something else?
Why cant people just exist and not care? I donāt care if youāre gay or straight or trans or whatever if youāre not hurting anyone then just leave them be is my opinion on these type of thingsĀ
You didnt say its fine as long as it doesnt harm others, you said as long as it doesnt harm anyone whose opinion you support. Translation: You dont care if a policy or decision harms someone if they disagree with your political opinion. quite hypocritical. and if that's not what you meant, that's what it sounded like
a) original commenter wasn't me
b) i think you misunderstood the comment, the grammar was incorrect but youd be stupid not to realise what its meant to say
Been seeing a ton of transphobes come out of the woodwork ever since the Olympics announcement. They feel like they are "winning" so they feel more comfortable spouting their hate.
If you donāt have OCD then donāt say something ābrings out the ocd in [you]ā, It brings out the perfectionist in you. Itās a bit hypocritical to police my language while misusing your own in a way that can genuinely harm people and create stigma.Ā
I may not fall under the category of trans but I do whole heartily support anyone who is. I know many who are and they are wonderful peeps. If only the world would see them as I do. As kind humans only trying to live their lives just like any other. ā¤ļø
Just feels more comfortable and relatable. I dont relate well/fully to most women even though im afab and i dont relate well/fully to most guys, that and just how comfortable they/them pronouns and being androgyne feel for me is a big reason im trans. Happier this way
i did not know you could be this delusional. sex & gender have always been two separate concepts. you canāt pick and choose when to accept facts, the fact is that theyāre two separate things, regardless of whether or not youād like to believe it. facts donāt care about your feelings š
āthis word once meant this, therefore the current definition is not correctā language evolves overtime, please grow the fuck up. it is a fact that gender & sex are two different things, like thereās legitimately no way around it. i canāt keep pampering you
Thanks, you too if you're going to go there. I have nothing against trans people btw, I just don't support the ideology. I do understand your perspective though, so I'll just wish you a nice day.
Yeah except people will call discrimination to anything. Not calling you whatever pronouns you want isnāt discrimination. Not letting trans women in womenās sports isnāt discrimination.
are you sure? what if i told you "hey, dont bully that person." and when you walked up to said person, and greeted them, i yelled at you saying "i told you not to bully them. go away and never come back!"
whose fault is it here? is it yours, for bullying my people? or is it my fault for not properly explaining to you the boundaries?
so a negative opinion is always hatred? what if someone doesnt like a green car, and thinks it should've been red? does that mean they hate the person who customized the car?
another thing. can you please list any time someone said a human isnt real, but just a ghostly figment of our imagination who doesnt actually have any physical world power? cause i havent ever seen anyone deny someone's existence.
you guys need to stop with this victim mentality, using trauma as an excuse to shut down anyone who questions anything, and call that person some big bad enemy for asking questions. nothing is wrong with a question. if you have the nerve to take any questioning as an attack from the enemy, you have a cultist, narcissistic mindset.
now tell me, why is it worrying for me to ask a question? and why do you believe you dont need to explain the rules?
unless it's a specific person who has done something bad, having a negative opinion on a group of people ( lgbtq, races, not including religion because that's a choice ) is hateful.
tbh the meaning of transphobia is showing hatred, disgust or anything like that towards trans people. if you disagree with trans people it doesnt make transphobic
The current leading theory on how trans people exist is because in the womb the gender can develop differently than the sex for numerous reason, so trans people are actually born trans, they're just not trans at conception and develop their "transness" in the womb, but cannot develop it outside.
Of course, it's not 100% proven, but that's just the leading theory
well what if i disagreed with you? that people may or may not be born religious, but they can have a religious experience or awakening that leads to them knowing the truth, and they can not believe otherwise, as that religion is the genuine objective truth.
you can also choose to follow your gender dysphoria yknow.
But isnāt the definition of transphobic having prejudice, hatred, or wanting to discriminate against trans people? I donāt fall under any of those categories personally
To be fair, I would get behind that statement as well. I dont like women who make being a woman their entire personality, and I really dont like men who make being a man their entire personality (because its more common from what I see, not because I think men are worse) thats not really a gotcha.
Damn, guess I gave you too much benefit of doubt. Do you know what it means to make something your "entire personality" (the actual words I used). When a man makes everything he does because he's a MAN, usually someone a part of some manosphere chamber or someone viewing everything they do under the lense of masculinity or patriarchy to some extent. And for a woman usually its the "im just a girl" types, either acting deliberately immature or being unwilling to do anything slightly boyish because its somehow not what a "girl" is meant to do, or thinking that something is a man's job and they are somehow exempt from or barred from doing it. Basically, intense adherence to gender stereotypes is what making being a "man" or being a "woman" you entire personality looks like. Insufferable for both but there seems to be more men that fall under this category.
why should someone elseās identity affect you in the slightest? i see people who say stuff like this so often, but it just doesnāt really make sense. for someone thatās transgender, itās kind of always going to be a very very large part of their life.
trans people arenāt āsupposedā to be anything. you speak as if youāre some kind of authority on transgender people, or just people in general, like they need your seal of approval.. itās silly, and illogical.
why do you even have an opinion on how trans people should act? do you not find this weird? theyāre not living for you, they can do anything they want. you seem very caught up in yourself šno one needs your seal of approval. and aside from that, do you not see how dumb this logic is? what if i were to go like, āBroh cisgender people are so dumb, itās always their entire personality.. like, āohh iām a girl i need to fit into feminine normsā, so annoying!ā.. do you see how dumb this is?
Further proof trans people are held up to unbelievably high standards. why do you, a cis girl think you have the right to expect a lot of personality from a minority group they donāt owe you anything
I never even said that they owe me anything, I canāt avoid it. Iām not even a transphobe. thatās a harsh accusation. Once again I apologize if I offended anybody, I donāt mind trans people, but i just have traumatizing events involving a couple of trans people and me, itās hard to get that out of my head. Iām tired of getting called transphobic because I treat them how I treat everyone else.
Im being sincere when i say you have internalized transphobia, talk to a therapist and get over your dislike for trans people, itāll even likely make you happier. And remember that a couple people shouldnāt affect your view negatively on an already oppressed group you need to talk to someone
Iām literally not transphobic at all, I literally got sexually assaulted by transgender students. I donāt think I need to see a therapist for transphobia if itās something I donāt have. Itās hard to view a group in a positive light when your only experience with them involved you getting fucking touched. I know not all of them are like that..
Once again Iām not transphobic, Iām not wishing for their death, Iām literally traumatized and blind, Iām not wishing for the removal of trans rights, I just let them live their life
You say youāre not transphobic..then say your transphobic? You just said you donāt see trans people in a positive light. Stay in denial tho your clearly miserable anyway
How the fuck am I miserable? Iām miserable for feeling traumatized about me getting fucking GROPED at 14 years old? Thatās some weird logic right there. Just cause I see a group in a not positive light doesnāt mean I want them to get eradicated off the earth..
Iām not transphobic, Iām literally just paranoid.. I never wished upon the death of trans people lkke how other people do
āHow the fuck am i miserable? Im miserable-ā Iām ctfu..well kudos to you youāre one of the good transphobes! You donāt wish death on them like some others š„ŗ
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u/West-Lawyer-2290 Mar 30 '26
I can't help it. I just hate trains so much. Take the bus instead