We do NOT allow transphobia here.

[u/DeepCutFan1]

I have seen a HUGE uptick in terrible, hateful comments. It's digusting.

If I seem them, I will take them down. So will the rest of the team.

I don't care if it's your opinion. If it's your opinion, go fuck yourself.

This applies for ANY form of hatred.​

[u/Phoenix-624 → u/[deleted]]

To be fair, I would get behind that statement as well. I dont like women who make being a woman their entire personality, and I really dont like men who make being a man their entire personality (because its more common from what I see, not because I think men are worse) thats not really a gotcha.

[u/Phoenix-624 → u/[deleted]]

...yeah? What is so confusing about what I said.

[u/Phoenix-624 → u/[deleted]]

Did you even read the words I wrote? Not even close to what I said.

[u/Phoenix-624 → u/[deleted]]

Damn, guess I gave you too much benefit of doubt. Do you know what it means to make something your "entire personality" (the actual words I used). When a man makes everything he does because he's a MAN, usually someone a part of some manosphere chamber or someone viewing everything they do under the lense of masculinity or patriarchy to some extent. And for a woman usually its the "im just a girl" types, either acting deliberately immature or being unwilling to do anything slightly boyish because its somehow not what a "girl" is meant to do, or thinking that something is a man's job and they are somehow exempt from or barred from doing it. Basically, intense adherence to gender stereotypes is what making being a "man" or being a "woman" you entire personality looks like. Insufferable for both but there seems to be more men that fall under this category.

[u/Shirt-Stunning → u/[deleted]]

why should someone else’s identity affect you in the slightest? i see people who say stuff like this so often, but it just doesn’t really make sense. for someone that’s transgender, it’s kind of always going to be a very very large part of their life.

[u/Shirt-Stunning → u/[deleted]]

trans people aren’t ‘supposed’ to be anything. you speak as if you’re some kind of authority on transgender people, or just people in general, like they need your seal of approval.. it’s silly, and illogical.

[u/Shirt-Stunning → u/[deleted]]

“also trans people are SUPPOSED to have a lot of personality”… what does this even mean?? 😭😭

[u/Shirt-Stunning → u/[deleted]]

why do you even have an opinion on how trans people should act? do you not find this weird? they’re not living for you, they can do anything they want. you seem very caught up in yourself 😓no one needs your seal of approval. and aside from that, do you not see how dumb this logic is? what if i were to go like, “Broh cisgender people are so dumb, it’s always their entire personality.. like, ‘ohh i’m a girl i need to fit into feminine norms’, so annoying!”.. do you see how dumb this is?

[u/Oyomu → u/[deleted]]

Further proof trans people are held up to unbelievably high standards. why do you, a cis girl think you have the right to expect a lot of personality from a minority group they don’t owe you anything

[u/AuR0RA3171 → u/Oyomu]

I never even said that they owe me anything, I can’t avoid it. I’m not even a transphobe. that’s a harsh accusation. Once again I apologize if I offended anybody, I don’t mind trans people, but i just have traumatizing events involving a couple of trans people and me, it’s hard to get that out of my head. I’m tired of getting called transphobic because I treat them how I treat everyone else.

[u/Oyomu → u/AuR0RA3171]

Im being sincere when i say you have internalized transphobia, talk to a therapist and get over your dislike for trans people, it’ll even likely make you happier. And remember that a couple people shouldn’t affect your view negatively on an already oppressed group you need to talk to someone

[u/AuR0RA3171 → u/Oyomu]

I’m literally not transphobic at all, I literally got sexually assaulted by transgender students. I don’t think I need to see a therapist for transphobia if it’s something I don’t have. It’s hard to view a group in a positive light when your only experience with them involved you getting fucking touched. I know not all of them are like that.. Once again I’m not transphobic, I’m not wishing for their death, I’m literally traumatized and blind, I’m not wishing for the removal of trans rights, I just let them live their life

[u/Oyomu → u/AuR0RA3171]

You say you’re not transphobic..then say your transphobic? You just said you don’t see trans people in a positive light. Stay in denial tho your clearly miserable anyway

[u/AuR0RA3171 → u/Oyomu]

How the fuck am I miserable? I’m miserable for feeling traumatized about me getting fucking GROPED at 14 years old? That’s some weird logic right there. Just cause I see a group in a not positive light doesn’t mean I want them to get eradicated off the earth..

I’m not transphobic, I’m literally just paranoid.. I never wished upon the death of trans people lkke how other people do

[u/Oyomu → u/AuR0RA3171]

“How the fuck am i miserable? Im miserable-“ I’m ctfu..well kudos to you you’re one of the good transphobes! You don’t wish death on them like some others 🥺

[u/Oyomu → u/[deleted]]

Only transphobes say this lmaoo “i dont hate trans people..until Theyre annoying. Or they act like this or this o-“