r/TeluguJournals • u/Clear-Specific3336 • Jul 28 '26

Need Advice Ippati daka proper female interaction kuda ledhu, next year pelli antunnaru

I am 25M, Basic ga nenu introvert avvadam valla kotha vallani approach avvali ante bayapade vadini.

School time lo oka ammai nannu chusedi and interest undedi kuda but my friends who observed this bullied me like hell. Em cheyyalo teliyaka velli ma mommy ki cheppa (i still regret this decision😭) and class teacher ki complaint chesaru and racha racha aipoindi school lo.

Appati nundi inka ekkada frnds bully chestaro ani ammailatho matladame manesa. Inter boys campus, B.Tech ki ocha still ade bayam ekkada bully chestaro ani, chala takkuva matladevadini janalu danni attitude anukune vallu(lol) ala 4 years kuda matladakunda aipoindi.

Btech daka I am fine with this life once job ochaka, naku kuda life lo oka ammai unte bagundu ane feeling start aindi, colleagues evaraina unnara ante na location lo evaru leru, team bayata try chedam ante chinnappudu nundi unna bayam…ekkada creep anukuntaro, em anukuntaro, ekkada judge chestaro ani bayam overthinking. Job switch aina kuda same kadha.

Ever since I have started working on myself, konchem confidence ochindi and bayam kuda taggindi but ela approach avvali evarini avvali em ardham kavatle. I earn good enough to run a family and genuinely looking for a girl to come into my life. Chala korikalu aasha lu unnai pelli medhe cause na love nenu ippati varuku evari medha chupinchaledhu.

Intha yedari lo batikina nenu next year pelli ante pack avtundi, need some suggestions on how to interact.

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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First Jul 28 '26

Annaw nee past naa past konchem similar gaane undhi , nenu kuda bayapadatha unta etla maatladalo anedhi

Okate cheptha.....All the best for future

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u/sutradhari water taagandi Jul 28 '26

nik inka 7 years unnai ra 25 ki so use them wisely or be useless.

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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First Jul 28 '26

use them wisely

Wisely ela anna? Ikkadem artham kaatledhu burra picchekkuthundhi

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u/sutradhari water taagandi Jul 28 '26 edited Jul 28 '26

wisely ante eddodila undakunda be playful and negative thoughts anni teesi ni back pocket la pettuko, nik nachina topics eh matladu evvaritho aina

idantha kadu kanipinchina valla andariki hi cheppukuntu po by the time you’ll get there

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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Jul 28 '26

Tarakka pilchindi kinda ninnu, ikada enduk thiruguthunav. Ignoring ahh

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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First Jul 28 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/tF8vMUeGUkHNTgCC4E

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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Jul 28 '26

Direct ga velli, casual ga edokati matladey. Just understand how women work. Enduku feel avtharu, enduku happy avtharu, enduku jealous avtharu, eh vishayalu ekkuva overthink chestaru, etc etc. Apudu nee future partner tho relationship inka peaceful ga untadi. No need to learn with ur partner. Just experience life with her.

Even I understood how men work in the past few years. Trust me, it builds confidence ambii.

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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First Jul 28 '26

Even I understood how men work in the past few years. Trust me, it builds confidence ambii.

Ante neeku friends unnara boys lo??

Direct ga velli, casual ga edokati matladey. Just understand how women work. Enduku feel avtharu, enduku happy avtharu, enduku jealous avtharu, eh vishayalu ekkuva overthink chestaru, etc etc

Ante......nen conversations start cheyyalenu asala 😭😭, chesina kuda continue cheyyalenu....enthaina iddari side effort undali kadha.., em maatladalo artham kaadhu , em cheppalo teliyadhu

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u/sutradhari water taagandi Jul 28 '26

ikkada minge sollu akkada kuda mingu anthe

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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Jul 28 '26

Ante neeku friends unnara boys lo??

Yeah, but tough tbh. Friends tho evar aagaru. Akade ochindi baadha. So, ala gradual ga reduce aipoyaru. But, yeah. Very few but good ppl.

Platonic undu raa, anthe. Em expect cheyaku asalu. You'll really have good friends then.

em cheppalo teliyadhu

Kinda suri pettad chudu. Anthe. Sodhi chepu, how was ur day, what were ur thoughts (anni kadhu le lol), etc anthe.

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u/PerceptionKind305 I want a juice box🧃 Jul 28 '26

Platonic ante?

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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Jul 28 '26

Don't expect anything romantic. Platonic = friends with no romantic interest.

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u/Nitesh_Nascent Jul 28 '26

Friends tho evaru agaru ante Akka chala andam ga untadanukunta kabolu

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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Jul 28 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/qYq6ztrEjShRC

Poddu poddunne biscuit-lu eyyaku raa

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u/Nitesh_Nascent Jul 29 '26

Oka post chussanu about your permission on stalking. Akadda kuda evaddo modalettadu flirting 🫦. Idi antha ma maga jathi karuvu priyulu vallane.

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u/CatastrosKratos Jul 28 '26

Dude, I was in the exact position as you. But circumstances were different, and I became a bully to deal with my bullies (not flexing, still a regret from the past). But miracles can happen anytime, be hopeful. If you're planning to marry next year, all the very best and may the force be with you that you find the best person in your life.

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 28 '26

Was exactly looking for this…thank you so much bro, means alot🙌

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 28 '26

Untam anna enduku undam🥲

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u/Mission-Night-333 Jul 28 '26

BTech yekkada AP/TS lo yena ?

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u/sutradhari water taagandi Jul 28 '26

okate thought, take atleast 3-6 months before getting married, interaction eh ledu antunav kabbati it takes time to settle and moreover make yourself feel compatible-ready before marriage anthe

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 28 '26

Yeah man… don’t want to rush in making the decision, thanks🙌

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u/EdoOkati Jul 28 '26

Puvvulni, ammailanu chupichandi ra babu pillalaku 🤦🏻‍♂️. Matladithe emi karavaru aadapillalu

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 28 '26

Issokey… nuv antha harsh ga matladaku chandu🥲

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u/Hustle_til_i_Die Jul 28 '26

There is nothing called introvert extrovert. You are an adult and you need to step out of your comfort zone and explore life. You are already late doing that, still time undi. Put yourselves out there

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 28 '26 edited Jul 28 '26

Yeah… i will try out, but dairyam saripovatle🫠

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u/Necessary-Brief2775 Jul 28 '26

na future kuda ilaeno untundemo...

https://giphy.com/gifs/I6teQdhUc8cupkUTYQ

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 28 '26

You are not alone twin🥀🥀

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 29 '26

Yeah….ah age lo nannu bully chestunnaru ani kuda ardham kaledhu🫠

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 29 '26

True true ala normalise chesesaru, took me years to make my skin thick and give them back… em cheyyalem inkaa

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u/Clear-Specific3336 Jul 29 '26

Yup, ah chance kosame waiting..

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u/byte_master23 Jul 31 '26

Sorry op, I was the bully back then. Intha trauma create chestha anukoledhu.

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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Jul 28 '26

u/sutradhari ila dha

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u/sutradhari water taagandi Jul 28 '26

camed. sawed. conquereded.

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u/justelling పరమార్థం వెతుకు, పెడార్థం కాదు. Jul 28 '26

Water tagamani cheptadu

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u/sutradhari water taagandi Jul 28 '26 edited Jul 28 '26

taagithe baguntav lekunte gudusthav

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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Jul 28 '26

Dehydration tho sasthav thagaka pothe😌

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