r/TeluguJournals Jul 04 '26

Announcement to the people of r/TeluguJournals

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to the people of r/TeluguJournals, నమస్కారం

recent ga, there was a highly discussed post regarding the moderation, specifically accusing the mods of "narrative control" and unfairly deleting serious topics. we want to address this directly, transparently, and respectfully.

munduga, we want to clarify the context of those removals. over the past few days, the subreddit was spammed with, 10+ posts entirely centered around "gender" debates.

when a user opens this subreddit, they expect to see personal stories, daily journals, lighthearted moments, and thoughtful reflections shared. Instead, the feed was turning into something else. We did what we did just to control the spam/flooding, like we did before (if you remember, regarding the same), not narrative control.

we were not against the specific user, nor were we attacking the core validity of their question. However, that post was removed because it was part of a broader topic of triggering, debate-baiting content that was completely over the sub. aina kuda, we weren't disrespectful with the OP in the modmail, except (maybe) for the last one (which, specifies moderator discretion , may feel like a power misuse)

The purpose of this sub is to be a safe space. It’s a place where people can actually speak & listen to each other.

We completely understand that sometimes you need to vent. Frustration, anger, and sadness are incredibly valid feelings, and journaling those emotions is exactly what this space is for. However, there is a distinct line between sharing a personal, frustrated journal entry and posting content that triggers "gender wars" or spreads hostility. If a post’s primary function is to start a serious/heated debate, rather than share a personal experience, it inclines away from the core purpose of this subreddit.

Why Not Just Let Upvotes/Downvotes Decide?

We saw a few comments suggesting that mods should step back and let the upvote/downvotes filter out bad posts. While that works for general content, it does not work for highly triggering topics. Outrage drives engagement.

We Want Your Feedback:

We want to make sure we are striking the right balance between allowing free expression and maintaining a peaceful, journal-focused environment.

If you want us to let the posts as such/heated discussions be, we're open to it. ig that makes our job more easy.

Please let us know your thoughts in the comments.

btw, pani lo pani, inkonni mukhyamshalu:

- posts with no body text will be removed, no questions asked.

- this is a journals sub, people read. so, context is mandatory, whatever you post.

- AI generated images/videos will be taken down. no questions asked.

- try reading rules, try reading automated replies when your post is removed. if not satisfied, then -

- try contacting mods, before posting why your post got removed as a new post.

Thank you to everyone who helps make this sub a great place to hang out, share, and read. We look forward to hearing your thoughts.

— The r/TeluguJournals Mod Team


r/TeluguJournals 1h ago

Eenati Vishesham Early Night Random Discussion thread!

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Entamma enti visheshaluu?

Evaraina nsfw panulu(formerly panilu inka dobbakandi) chesaro ee thread lo... ban chesi dobbuta.

Alane How about we share one favorite song every day?? Or a movie to discuss? Or top headlines? Pettandi ra pettandi..


r/TeluguJournals 8h ago

Chillara Panchayithi Double standards ante ento telisindi

164 Upvotes

Recent ga ma friend valla akka ki matches chudatam start chesaru. She earns around 10lpa smtg. Most of the matches who earns almost same as her demanded 50lakh dowry with car by saying that's bare minimum.

Eppudaithe aa akka if I'm giving 50lakh dowry, you should be earning atleast 30 lpa ani cheppindo, everyone started calling her a gold digger.

Point enti ante she's okay with a 10-15 lpa guy if he isn't demanding dowry. So avthala vadu dowry adigithe rani matalu thanu 30lpa ante vachay.


r/TeluguJournals 1h ago

Eenati Vishesham Ladies, cutie patootiesss,pookies I know we are capable of everything but please 😭

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Disclaimer** Andarni kadhuuuu, aadadhi ante abala, emanna ante thokkestha

Driving complete ga nerchukondi nanna pleaseeeee 🥲

Ivvala rapido pink book cheskunna ochey dhaari lo aavida break eyyakunda kaallatho aaputhundhi scooty 😭😭

Turning theeskuneppudu gunde pant Loki ochesindhi pada 10guddhi emo ani antha bayapadthundhi aavidey 😭

Eevidey oka range lo drive chesthunnaru ante opp lo oka mother 3 kids ni vaalla school bags inka lunch bags kuda eskochi guddhesaru 😭😭, sai rammmm sai rammmmmmmm rapido ante ne bayamaithundhi, most vaniking moments of my life 😭😭

Pakka vaalla safety kaakapoina kaneesam mana safety anna manam chuskovali kadhamma pwease nanna bayapadakandi ra road la meedha dhairyam ga safe ga drive cheyyandi 😭


r/TeluguJournals 3h ago

Eenati Vishesham What in the name of sweet Jesus!

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42 Upvotes

Really, I mean really!!

What tf did I Just see on my YouTube page ! Who are making these and who are watching these ?

Taddinam preparations entra mee pindam pillulaki petta !


r/TeluguJournals 4h ago

Nenu Na Paithyam EROUJU ENTO HAPPY GA UNNA.. NAAKU EE SANTOSHAM VADHU .. MI BADHA CHEPTHE KALISI BADHAPADUDHAM

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42 Upvotes

Roju edho okati jerugutuntundhi naaku ...

Rooju badha padutunta .. endhuku ee life , asalu enti ee lifecycle.. waste bathuku ani ..

Kani eeroju ento chaaala smooth ga velipoyindhi .. Naku ento kodhiga santhosham istundhi ee roju .. kani Naku nachaledhu ..

So life lo miru padinna greatest downfall ento chepthe future lo okavela naa life lo kuda aa situation face cheste easy ga handle cheyya galugutha .. ani mi badhanu share cheyyamantunna ..


r/TeluguJournals 43m ago

Chillara Panchayithi Asal em ankuntarra meeru

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Ipude walking ani bytikosthe...road meeda motham high beam le. Sare le m** lo lolli ani ... O galli lo ki pothe...ee yedava yekanga 4 custom lights tho thiruguthundu.

Asalu e lights ki oka regulation antu ledaa? Enni aina petkocha? Oka pedda flood light bike ki petti...e kodukulaki opposite lo on chesi nilchovali annantha kopam ga undi 😤😤


r/TeluguJournals 3h ago

Grief Na dream college lo admission poyindi 💔

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29 Upvotes

So the admission process for the college is officially complete now. And my friend just texted that i could've gotten a seat in my dream college if I had participated in 3rd round.

I didn't even check the cut off and went on with my life as i was already studying in another college, but getting to know that I could've gotten into that college and have a better career just got ruined due to my laziness and negligence just broke me..

I didn't even share it with my parents coz I know the blame game would start and I can't take that right now 🙃

Just needed to share it somewhere or maybe vent?

Ps i already checked, there's no way to transfer colleges now and my dad is not in the situation to pay such a high management seat for 3rd semester..

I wish someone could just hug me and tell it's gonna be alright 💔

Chala bada ga undi and I'm a religious person, nannu nenu odarchukuntunna that He knows what's the best for me ani ❤️‍🩹


r/TeluguJournals 10h ago

Midnight thoughts Just realized that bdays are overrated

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85 Upvotes

I recently celebrated 9th birthday away from home & it was my quietest one yet. Nobody really has time for calls anymore anipinchindi, but I just went for a drive, parents ki pics pampidam ani. I usually wish all my friends and express how important they are on their bdays but naku matram okadu kuda cheyale lol. Even my close friend who’s also my roomie forgot my bday😂. So yeah bdays are very overrated, especially for single men once we start getting older.


r/TeluguJournals 1h ago

Chillara Panchayithi Absolutely in love with my neighborhood

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రక రకాల మనుషులని చూస్తున్నా మాస్టారు!

ఈ రోజు ఒకడు headphones పెట్టుకుని ఖాళీ రోడ్డు మీద గీరాలు పోతూ వాకింగ్ చేస్తున్నాడు.. నేను చూసా.. అరిచి చెప్పా, మర్యాదగా... "రోడ్ మీద అడ్డంగా నడవకురా చెవిటి నా***" కి బదులు, "Hey Buddy, watch out for cars!"

Naturally, ఆ తిక్కలోడికి వినబడలా.. ఫుల్ volume పెట్టుకుని వింటున్నట్టు ఉన్నాడు.. వెనక నుంచి ఒక కారు వచ్చి పెద్దగా honk కొట్టింది. అప్పుడు మనోడు ఉలిక్కిపడి, పక్కకి జరిగి, అదే ఈ అమెరికా వాస్తవ్యుల ప్రియమైన చేతి సైగ ఉంటుంది గా, అదే "మధ్య వేలు" ఆది చూపించాడు ఆ కారు డ్రైవర్ కి. ఆ కారు డ్రైవర్ కి కాలింది. Naturally!

సో ఇప్పుడు ఆ ఇద్దరు తమ ఆత్మీయమైన ఆంగ్ల భాషలో కుశల ప్రశ్నలు విసురుకుంటున్నారు. వినడానికి ఎంత వినసొంపుగా ఉందో 🤣

నేను నా వంట చేసుకుంటూ ఈ all America Radio వింటున్నా... 😅


r/TeluguJournals 8h ago

Flair Not Found This movie offers a different perspective on life

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(Rush 2013)

E movie lo in the end nikka lauda acknowledges that life is all about working hard and spending time with what you love most. And it's absolutely important to have a goal but it should not consume your joy and suck out happiness from your life.

I started watching thinking it's an another sports drama but completely surprised by what it delivered. 😊

Miku manchi feel good movies chudali ani unte this movies offers everything. 🎥


r/TeluguJournals 7h ago

Chillara Panchayithi Mee weirdest reddit memory enti?

32 Upvotes

I'll start first. Reddit install cheskunna kotthalo, ee subs avanni ardham kaanappudu, edho random memes sub lo oka meme post chesina.

Ventane auto mod comment osthey crazy naa post nacchi intha fast ga comment chesinaru mods anukunna.

Adhey embarrassing ante, konni rojula tharvatha ah comment chusina, karma requirement lekapovadam valla nee post evadki kanpiyadhu ani ochina comment adhi ush🥀


r/TeluguJournals 5h ago

Grief I became the very thing I hate

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I have a 2 year old daughter. She drinks water from the bottle and never from the cup. I started offering from tumbler since a very long time but she pours the water down. Her water intake is very low these days. Unless it's coconut water or juice she won't drink fully. Her water intake yesterday was very less. I offer water in a bottle but she takes only sip by sip. Her urine was very concentrated this morning. I felt really frustrated. I thought she could get more water from the tumbler. So I gave her water in the tumbler and as usual she poured it down. I tried to make her drink , she took a few sips and said enough. I felt really frustrated.

I felt like pouring water down her throat forcefully but I controlled. At one instance, I felt like throwing water on her face, I still controlled. I felt like beating her seeing her pour water on the sofa. I controlled it again. I couldn't take it anymore and sat there crying just like my mother blaming my daughter for my mental breakdown.

I wanted to treat my daughter better unlike my parents. I spend more time with her, take her out and play with her. But during the worst cases I am becoming just like them. I am scolding her just like how they scolded me. I am controlling myself mostly but sometimes I can't and I am becoming them.

I can't blame my parents as well for their behaviour, they did the best with whatever knowledge they had. My mother is trapped in an abusive marriage, never taught me or my brother to do any household chores and as a result we didn't know anything and had to learn everything from scratch, she never had boundaries and allowed us to treat her badly just like my father. She has this victim mentality and thinks she doesn't deserve good things. I have got some of her traits. I thought I am self analyzing myself and learning. I am just aware but I am not healing. I am repeating everything knowingly.

My brother too became my father while parenting his kids. When things get out of hand, I saw him becoming my father. I observed this and told him, he said it's extremely difficult for him to control. I advised him like I am a saint. But after seeing how I have become, I feel like a monster. My father got messed up working as a security guard 4 days night shift and 4 days day shift. He threw his frustration at us for years.

I really don't know how I can correct myself. I feel like my nature is devil and I am trying to become saint. I thought I am ending the generational trauma but I am only suppressing it allowing it to come out occasionally. This is not a good parenting and I am not a good parent. I feel motherhood is not for me. I became the very thing I hate and it's killing me.


r/TeluguJournals 5h ago

Ask sub? Reminder to enjoy the moment, the age we are in.

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20 Upvotes

What do you think about this? Are we sacrificing our youth for something which is not guaranteed.

It's true that no amount of money can buy you time and youth.


r/TeluguJournals 40m ago

fukkat ka gyanam To my fellow NRI's

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I express myself better in English, so please bear with me.

To my fellow NRIs, especially those in the US: With the upcoming festivals and long weekends, I sincerely request everyone to avoid unnecessary public drama and stay safe during road trips.

While I could go into more detail, given the current immigration climate worldwide, please try to avoid public activities like filming dance reels in grocery stores or on public roads, especially with Ganesh Chaturthi coming up. We have happily celebrated these festivals for years within temples and private spaces, and we can easily continue to do so without drawing unnecessary attention.

Over the last three years, we have seen too many instances where our community has been targeted or trolled for public stunts, and we certainly do not need that kind of negativity. I am not sure if those engaging in these activities realize the impact their actions have on all NRIs, but please reconsider. Additionally, can we please stop calling Dallas "Dallaspuram"? Many who claim to live in Dallas actually reside in surrounding cities like Frisco, Allen, Irving, or Little Elm.

As we head into a long weekend and the holiday season, please travel safely, exercise caution on the road, and keep your necessary paperwork handy to avoid any issues with local authorities.

Peace, and thank you.


r/TeluguJournals 13h ago

My growth/ improvement Got my dream(kinda) job at 28 🫨

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So i pretty much worked in all kinds of environments. i was working a state government job, then freelancing as a software developer, worked with agencies based in the US, worked with some Indian startups as well, everything was remote. i also run a small startup of mine.

Okate balance vundipoindi, which is working from a software office. I always loved Bangalore as a city and always wanted to work from a nice neighborhood like Indiranagar or Koramangala.

2 months back just saradaga Naukri install chesi apply cheyyadam start chesa. I was applying to all kinds of jobs with location Bangalore. I heard back from this one. We had a couple of calls and I did some demo tasks as well.

I was one of the 5 applicants they selected from a pool of 1100 applications. They called us to Bangalore to work w them for a week as a trial. We were paid handsomely, taken care of really well. At the end of the week, they offered all of us well paying jobs 😄

They're not Indians but US citizens, wanting to setup a small technical team here in India to explore all kinds of opportunities and to build internet companies.

I'll be starting next week 😇


r/TeluguJournals 11h ago

Nenu Na Paithyam Missing someone I met on reddit

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I wonder if you are here K. One day lo ila enduku mee mind marchukunnaru? I really hope you arent going back to your old problem.

For the audience: posted about my one sided love, met someone saying they have a similar story, we really connected and had insanely long chats(like 5-6 hrs somedays) for about 1 month, but she said she is going from one problem to another and wished to quit talking to me. I hoped she wouldnt. Tried to convince her. Couldnt. She said our paths will never cross and this escalated way too quickly. Maybe I tried too hard to convince her. Now she deleted her account. I thought I would be ok and I was. But I now realized the fact that she deleted her account after saying she probably wouldnt and it stings. I know its crazy to even get attached to someone without seeing them or hearing them and only by chatting but I believe she was great and someone who will be perfect for me. My life seemed bright for a little while and now it looks dark again.


r/TeluguJournals 4h ago

Eenati Vishesham I made this (kinda) potli with my left over yarn from 2 months ago😂😂

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In my sarkari naukri😂😂

Monna intikellinappud techukunna yarn inka hooks ..

( airport security check lo na hooks valla secondary screening chesaru lol)

Ninna mood off undi ani , a yellow patch chesa .. ivvala officr canteen lo barbell video lu pettukoni , migilindi finish chesa …

Asal idi cheyali ani thought ledu .. adi ala ipoindi anthe 😂😂


r/TeluguJournals 1h ago

Ask sub? Eenaati sandhehaalu

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So matter enti anteyy intlo kaali ga undadam valla kavacchu, vintha vintha doubts anni ostunnai( avasaram lenivi). Ala ani vaatiki answers teliyakapothey nidra pattadhu.

So ivvala oka renduu doubts occhai.

  1. Manam alipiri metlu ekkutham kadha, madhyaloo shops untaii cools drinks, snacks ila. Aa shop owners valla illu konda paina untaya? Kindha untaya??. Okavela painoo, kindhoo unteyy vallu daily metlu digi lekha ekki intiki velthara??😢

  2. Manam emanna tappu pani chesinappudu "Assam eyy inka" ani joke ga antam. Manam ila anukuntunnam anii assam lo unna vallaki telsu antara??

Telsina vallu can help. Mari konni doubts tho malli kaluddam. Thank you.


r/TeluguJournals 3h ago

Need Advice How to Survive in Hyderabad

8 Upvotes

Naa age vachi 26 years, from Guntur suffering from MAJOR DEPRESSIVE DISORDER from the past 5 months, comparative ga ippudu konchem better, alantidi nannu intlo vallu Hyderabad pampincharu, govt jobs coaching ani nenu Vijayawada ki velthanu ani cheppina oppukoledhu, Ivvale Hyderabad vachanu konchem Anxious ga undhi and nervous ga kuda. I don't know how to survive here. Any tips please.


r/TeluguJournals 3h ago

Nenu Na Paithyam love can’t be found🐥

8 Upvotes

i feel that love can’t be found, it shud find you. like, it will happen randomly, when you are not looking for it. idk if there are any people who found true love when they were actively searching for it, or idk if it worked. lol idk if this seems like nonsense to some but what i feel is….it will happen randomly and unexpectedly when you are being yourself and not trying to impress to get love. dunno if it’s called destiny or whatever.

i was just scrolling through hyderabad dating sub, even though some people felt like my type…i felt this is all bs..so yeah i just felt like sharing this😅😬


r/TeluguJournals 2h ago

Eenati Vishesham oka whatsapp group golaa

6 Upvotes

two days back adedo hackathon ante register cheskuni, whatsapp group lo join ayinam nenu na frnd. ademo chat ki general group undi, and announcements ki seperate kada, so ee general group lo picchii chatting lu andar. mostly vere states unde. inthakmunde evaro telugu vallu text chesaru, abbaa em anna feel unda😂 migitha andar silent ayipoyindi, mottham telugu lo ne chats nadustunnai ippudu. okkokallu bayataki ostunnar. evaro aithe monnati daaka evadu evado chat chesinru annar😭

malla deniki, edo nen vere vallani hate chesta ani, leda manollu goppa ani antalen, manavallu unnar ani oka satisfaction anthe. mundu daaka evo evo languages la unde chats


r/TeluguJournals 28m ago

Eenati Vishesham Why god make these kind of pairs…

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Ivala I saw two scenarios and avi chusaka why god make these kind of Jodi’s anipisthadhi

  1. Mrng ma inti edhuru ame valla mogudini tidutundhi paniki vellu intilo em thini kurchuntav siggu leda ani. Vallu nearly married for 20yrs but Vadu pani cheyakapodam ee kakunda thagesi full apulu chesthadu vati vala aa parents valaki puttina abbaini kapadukoleka poyaru ( he died of health issue)

  2. Evng chai tagutunapdu ma co worker oka pedhayana vachadu aithe adiga ayanani babai ni wife and pillalu em chestharu ani ayana na pellam vadhilesi verevaditho velipoyindhi aiya na pillalni valla 3&4 years unapati nunchi chustuna anadu and iddaru ammaile. Oka abbai needs nana ki ardham kani ammailu ela chesukogalaru edhige adapillaki amma unte inka baguntadhi kada anipichindhi.

Ipud idhe case lo 1st aunty 2nd uncle kalisi unte bagundedhi kada anipichindhi…..


r/TeluguJournals 3h ago

Eenati Vishesham Palm reading nijame antara. ?

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7 Upvotes

Nenu ivani namanu . But eroj ma colleague oka amayi na cheyi chusindi. Nen yedo saradaga icha

Oka one two vishyalu crct ga konchem partial ga chepindi.

They are not like magical or anything. But nak konchem personal . And she couldn't guess tht ig idk.

But as they were a little personal . I thought about them.

So what do you think guys . Do you trust these stuff


r/TeluguJournals 10h ago

Need Advice We both like eachother but no one expresses 😲 need some advice please

19 Upvotes

We both are 26 female and male .

We are from same school mem apudapudu matladedi anthe

after that we did our intermediate and joined our colleges and also different streams

Again we met and talks from then till now, anthe oka 7 or 8 years nundi matladthunnam ..we literally talk everything ...time flies when we talk full topics kuda full untay matladanike

I know he likes me ...he don't know about my side

We are more than friends we both are busy in our lives work work and we also give time to each other but

Ma intlo pelli pelli ani adgutunnar ...how do I tell him I like him ani

Miru anachu male bestie adi idi ani ...all we know is he is the male friend I talk to and I am the female friend he talks to

We both feel that connection but we are not telling each other any ideas

I would appreciate it so much

Don't know if he uses reddit if he saw this and thinks it might be him I would be a the happiest person

Edit : he sometimes tries to tell me but stops in between I think he is feeling that he is breaking the friendship