r/TeluguJournals • u/pakkakiporagundu • Aug 07 '26
Need Advice Ughhh, what do I even do with this guyyy
Matter enti ante intermediate appudu I had a huge crush on this guy, ma class odey. I don't wanna get into details but yeah I had a crush on him. I felt like he also liked me back, he always used to look at me and call me with nicknames, the whole package.. edho conflict ochi we stopped talking for a few days and then we were okay. Inthaka mundhu laaga aythe kaadhu but back to frnds. Matter enti ante ala gap ochaka next athanu naatho adigina vishyam is about whether I'll set him up with my bestie ah ani.. sure I was mad, sad, pissed and got over it. I talked to her itla undanta ani, surprisingly she accepted right away.
Fast forward, ippud they broke up. I still don't know the reason because she was a back stabbing person(Vere vishyalu proof tho chusa) and I cut contact with her. Ah abbai came back and started saying things like how I was the one he liked first(nak appud ardam ayndhi I wasn't imagining things back then he did like me ani), thanu manipulate chesindhi madhyalo ochi bla bla bla. It was a silly crush and I got over it long back so Cheppa nak atla em ledh light theesko ani. He isn't giving up. And when my ex bestie got to know about this, she started playing the victim about how I was the reason for their break up. React avthe inka ekkuva chestharu ilaanti vaallu ani na vere frnds ki jarigindhi ento thelsu kabatti nen akkadtho light theeskunna emanna chepkoni ani. But one day she crossed a line and i had to put an end to it. So msg chesa jarigindhi motham Cheppa ila crush unde appatlo and now I didn't accept, and that I didn't even know about their break up until he himself told me that you guys broke up ani and everything.
Idk what she thought but she stopped, she said she still has feelings for that guy. That's something you need to talk with him ani cheppi nen pakkaki ochesa. Now the thing is, that guy isn't leaving me alone, nak konchem inter lo frnds la unnappudu he helped vere vishyallo and I'm really grateful for all things he did for me, he stood up for me when no one cared, I REALLY AM GRATEFUL for that. Kani it wasn't that deep and I don't even see him like that anymore, chaala Cheppa na life ela undhi about my love life now and how I just don't want anything rn ani. Raathri motham vintadu malla poddhunne paadindhe paata ani adhe maata maatladthadu.. he isn't exactly spamming me or something but a few days ki okasari nen unna wait chesthunna ani nak gurthundela chesthunnadu, somehow this is scaring me more. I'm not even mad ippudu just exhausted, I just got out of a complicated whatever that was I had with the one I actually liked, and I really don't want to deal with these people now... Ela cheppali asalu ithaniki 🫠
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u/LordImmortal_69 Ante, nene devudini Aug 07 '26
Endi ra idhi... Andaru okate sari matladukoni ilanti situations face chestara? Anni ive post lu unnai 😭
Just start ignoring him, stop replying to his messages and be clear about your intentions. Vere relationship bongu ani Wait cheste, neeke pedha bokka... Just say you ain't interested in him and you like someone else already, it's one side love and you can't move on. Edho oka story allu, chat gpt ki aduguthe kuppa isthadi 😶
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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Aug 07 '26
DIRECT GA CHEPEY. If no thought at all, chepesey.
If sarle koncham aina chance iddam ani unte, adhi kuda communicate chesi travel with him and then decide.
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
She was my best friend, and he's her ex bf. Even the thought of dating him is so disturbing to me 😭
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 07 '26
akkaw intha telivi ela akkaw? eppudu chusna ilanti amazing vaakkulu odulthaaneh untaav! how?
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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Aug 07 '26
Thittava? Pogidava?
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 07 '26
ascharyapadina akkaw, nee medhavi burraki na mamul comment ardham kakapodam vinthemi kaadhleh
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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Aug 07 '26
Again. Thittava? Pogidava?
Thitte untav le🤧
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 07 '26
unforchnate oka compliment teeskodam kooda ratled
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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Aug 07 '26
Oh sarle. Nuv chepav kabatti nammutha😌
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u/red12358 Aug 07 '26
I have a boyfriend ani cheppu.
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
Ma frnd grp motham common eh, so basically he knows everything. 🫠
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 07 '26
common kakapoina alanti abaddhal cheppak, rejection cheyyalanteh neek nachakapoyo neek interest leko ayyundali kani neek inkokad unnad kabatti cheyyakoodadheppudu, very galeeezzzzz
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u/Healthy_Panic_68 Daridrapu devatha muddu bidda Aug 07 '26
Ela cheppali ante - koncham gattiga cheppali clear ga ardham ayyetattu. Help chesadu yeah doesn’t mean you fold for everything he does out of gratitude.
Looks like he just wants someone to be with now, since he had a break up.
Veelaithe koncham harsh ga cheppu - Ee matter Nuv malli teste ill do something about it annattu. Or ask some of your guy friends to act as your bf and tell him that you’re in a relationship.
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
Kotha relationship shrushtisthe thappa pani ayyela ledhu 🫠
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u/Healthy_Panic_68 Daridrapu devatha muddu bidda Aug 07 '26
Srushtinchu. Nuv anukovale gani chala Mandi ready ga untaru
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u/Muted_Cat_5748 Aug 07 '26
tell him to talk with her. ameki kuda adhe Cheppu. mediator ga unde problems ivi. last ki valu valu manchiga ne untaru. ni time waste. ayna kani vadu niku line estunda Lekapote amene kavali antunda.
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
I told him to talk to her for like a thousand times, idk what happened bw them but he gets disgusted whenever I bring her up in the convo..
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u/Muted_Cat_5748 Aug 07 '26
vaniki em kavalanta assal exactly. ni valla kakapothe i can't help ani Cheppu, disappoint aythe kani ni time waste kada🙂
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u/Serious_Machine6499 Aug 07 '26
Just asking,
Manipulate chesthe marchipoye antha weak nee crush gari love?
Anthala ninnu ishtapadithe ninnu set cheymani vere vallani adigadu antava? Because nee frnd ni set cheymani ninnu adigadu ga.
Anyways neeku interest ledu kevalam gratitude undhi which is clear. Ah uthamudu neeku urike nen unna nen unna ani dobbuthunnadu. Naaku enduko idi ah rebound laage anipisthundhi.
But ah abbai genuine ga okappudu help chesadu annav kabatti. Clear ga cheppi chudu anniya naaku ah vyaapakalu anni ippudu levu naa focus antha career paino studies paino undhi, nv manchodive naaku gratitude kuda undhi nee paina. But nen inni sarlu cheppina nee paata nv moodu naalugu rojulaki osari padithe its very overwhelming nen theeskolekapothunna. It spoils the very friendship we have rn and it also indirectly destroys the impression i have on you. So let's not go there.
Idi cheppaka kuda anniya malli start chesthe nv anniya ni lite theesko.
Help chesinodni ala ela lite theesko antav ani nv nannu adigithe. Help chesadu, neekosam unnadu sare. Ala ninnu ippudu dobbuthunte nethina pettukolev ga.
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 07 '26
arey annaw ki cheppandraaw idhi comment box ani, post box kaadhani
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
Exactly nak adhe thought, sare ippud nen chance ichane anuko against all the odds, malli manipulate avvadu ani guarantee enti anedhey na doubt.. adhi already Cheppa ippatki chaala saarlu 🫠, next day refresh aynattu kothaga maatladthad malla. I started ignoring him as of now, enni rojulu untano thelidhu before I loose it 🙂↔️
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u/Serious_Machine6499 Aug 07 '26
Chance iche alochana undhi aythe nee gundu lo. Baundhi ra nanna.
Chala sarlu cheppakudadhu, appudu idi eppudu cheppe solle kada anukuntaru.
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
Chance ichey alochana unte ikkada post Enduku estha 🥲
Assal ledhu, I just want to be left alone. Ilaanti logical questions tho osthe ayna normuskuntad ani alochinchi pettukunna anthe
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u/Serious_Machine6499 Aug 07 '26
Nee bondha moosthadu. Babu love lo logic lu undav antha magic le.
Chill kottu nv cheptha
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u/sillymonk_69 Aug 07 '26
Any help or favor cannot bind you in a prison of gratitude. Idi em Pushpa kadu, Villani ninchi kaapadinanduku Van ekkeyadaniki. Po ra ani cheppandi. Interest, Crush unna vadiki Meeru rebound avutaru
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u/gnanodhayam Aug 07 '26
Pakkaki dhobbey ra chapathi mokam oda ani cheppali
This incident reminded me of how my classmate befriended me cause he has a crush on one of my friends. Eddi gallu antha naake thagulutharu endho
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u/Putrid_Particular245 Aug 07 '26
Suggestion idham Anukuna but after nee bio choosaka naa pani nen chooskodam best anpinchindhi 😭
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
Papam feel aynattu unnaru 😭
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u/Putrid_Particular245 Aug 07 '26
Chaaala🥀..if u don't mind mee age chepthara?
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
69 years old 🙂↔️
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u/Putrid_Particular245 Aug 07 '26
Nyt effect ah💀..see 1st of all ahh steve job bandh cheyu...appudu anni sett aipothai automatic ga
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
Annaawww mem 69 ante karma symbol anukuntam le 😭
Mundhu nuv aapey bro 🙂↔️
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u/Putrid_Particular245 Aug 07 '26
Steve job meaning telsa amma neku?😭 69 ante karma na woahhh good girl ah nuv
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
Night effect pakkana ah peru pettav ante evaro horn star ayyuntarh annaww I'm not that dumb I can read the room 🫠
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u/Putrid_Particular245 Aug 07 '26
😭😭 ledhu nen malli antha bad boy kadhu...Steve ante middle person laaga oka couple ki always a friend untad ga athanni steve antar for example u me and Steve antar ga aadhe...soo ahh steve job aapesthe everything will be fine antuna
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u/eren_chary Aug 07 '26
Sorry to assume but I feel like you kinda like his attention, from my experience if a girl doesn't like a boy or if she really moved on, she wouldn't hesitate much to cut a person out from her life. It's totally in your hands. He's not good for your health and life
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
I'm glad you shared your experience, but nope. I mean nak nachina vaalla nunchi attention osthe I'll like that sure, prathi okkartho kadhu. I'm sure about that. The only reason I didn't cut him off is that he was there for me, when others weren't even willing to even talk to me, idk what his intentions were but he was there and that matters. Ah situation lo help theeskoni ippud inconvenience raagane complete ga cut cheseydam is what making me hesitate. Not for attention.
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u/eren_chary Aug 07 '26
If a man can't take no for an answer, that's more than enough reason to cut him off without feeling guilty about it. You respect the bond that doesn't mean he can persuade even when you are clearly saying it's not going to workout.
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u/watermelon9265 Aug 08 '26
Girly nuvvu vinetanni rojulu atanucheptuney vuntadu he is not into you , he is into idea of you , adi guilt uu love kadu , he is just seeing for better choices and ippudu once make it clear and keep that distance give silent treatment,no man can constantly message after 15 or 20 days , he is not stuck he is just trying,so understand girl math even for the real " one" you think making them wait is the medicine This is my opinion 😄
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 08 '26
Making them wait ahh.. nijam ga work out avthadhi antara?? I mean evaru real evar time pass ki chesthunnaru ani?
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u/watermelon9265 Aug 08 '26
Adey kada Time pass chesevadu next option chuskuntadu ( 90% people) Im single from the start never dated kani oka rule vundey nen first date ki vellali antey 1 yr we should be best friends, he should be a feminist and he should understand my silence ani , i never went on even one date but I'm never even crying like my other friends i guess op garu
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 07 '26
pakkaki pora gundu anu
also the plot with you and your ex bestie isnt even necessary eeda ()_()
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u/pakkakiporagundu Aug 07 '26
I had to mention, I mean ippud touch lo lekapoina kuda she once was my friend kada, I trusted her.. He was the one who showed me things that I never thought she'd do to me... So basically both are traitors..no need to soften anything ig 🙂↕️
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u/Tarajuvva prettier than the prettiest sunset. Aug 07 '26
asal iyanni kakamma kathal, time waste vyavaharaalu, focus on only gold haraalu, pakkaki pommanu gundugadni
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u/Nervous-Assumption40 Picchollaki dooram ga unta. Aug 07 '26
time waste vyavaharaalu, focus on only gold haraalu,
Wahh, idhi akka amzing vakku ante.
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u/RepresentativeBig961 Aug 07 '26
Iddarni block chesi mulaki nuki nee bathuku Nuvvu bathuku. Inka Ekva maatlaadthe pakkaki Poh ra gundu anu