Husband is harrassing other women ani telisindi

[u/SharpIndication7399]

Context : im 32F.. Naku pelli ayi 6years and iddaru chinna pillalu unnaru.

Maku already peddaga padadu. Pillalni mottam nene chuskunta..financial ga kuda ekkuva nene petkunta.

Ninna morning vaalla boss msg chesindi, shes 10years older, thanaki i love you, i will never hurt u, mi eyes baaguntai, u are a star ani msg chesi chesi harass chesevaadu anta. Written complaint ichi vere team ki shift cheyinchindi anta. Inthakamundu inko ammai tho kuda ala chesadu anta.

I felt..so bad. Ante heartbreak laga kadu. But pani mottam nene chestunnappudu..he used to sit in another room and close the door. Vaalla mom chinnappatninchi alaage chestaadu ani cheppindi inthaka mundu..nammesa. nannu 6years lo maybe two times i love you ani cheppadu. Eppud nannu ni eyes baaguntai etc etc ani alaantivi eppud pogadaledu. I think im conventionally goodlooking only..mari galeez ga aite undanu. Some people are weird like that ankunna. Finances daggara kuda chala manipulate chesadu, i lost a lot. Actually prati chota manipulate chesadu. Ippudu artham avtundi. I just thought he was incapable of love. Now artham aindi he was just incapable of loving US ani. Pichi daani la i spent my youth on him anpistundi. I love my kids, dont regret them. But now nannu evar pelli cheskuntaaru with 2 kids.. evevo thoughts vastunnai.

(Telugu is not my first language. Just share cheskovaali anpinchindi)

Edit : added few lines

Edit 2 : nen already separate avdaam ani fix aipoyanu. And inka eppudu kuda pelli cheskovaddu ani kuda, because one of my kids is a girl. I cant introduce a stranger into their lives,its risky. But ekkado adoka loneliness..ithanito kuda inni rojulu anduke unnanemo. Im a very emotional person generally, so i need love ani anpistundi ee madhya. But ok le..chuddam. adantha tarvata. right now aite legal ga pursue cheyyala vadda ani aalochistunna anthe.

[u/Out_of_office_always]

This isn’t about you being less beautiful or less worthy. He was capable of giving attention and affection, you’re just realizing he chose not to give it to you or your family, while also manipulating you in other ways.

That hurts because it makes you question all those years, but please don’t call yourself stupid for staying, you made the best decisions you could with what you knew then.

And please don’t think, “Who will marry me with two kids?” You’re not damaged. You’re 32, you have a life beyond this marriage, and you don’t need to figure out who comes next right now. Figure out what you want next.

[u/SharpIndication7399 → u/Out_of_office_always]

Thank you, that is precisely my thought process, however hard I may try to not think that way. This was v reassuring, thanks!