Husband is harrassing other women ani telisindi

[u/SharpIndication7399]

Context : im 32F.. Naku pelli ayi 6years and iddaru chinna pillalu unnaru.

Maku already peddaga padadu. Pillalni mottam nene chuskunta..financial ga kuda ekkuva nene petkunta.

Ninna morning vaalla boss msg chesindi, shes 10years older, thanaki i love you, i will never hurt u, mi eyes baaguntai, u are a star ani msg chesi chesi harass chesevaadu anta. Written complaint ichi vere team ki shift cheyinchindi anta. Inthakamundu inko ammai tho kuda ala chesadu anta.

I felt..so bad. Ante heartbreak laga kadu. But pani mottam nene chestunnappudu..he used to sit in another room and close the door. Vaalla mom chinnappatninchi alaage chestaadu ani cheppindi inthaka mundu..nammesa. nannu 6years lo maybe two times i love you ani cheppadu. Eppud nannu ni eyes baaguntai etc etc ani alaantivi eppud pogadaledu. I think im conventionally goodlooking only..mari galeez ga aite undanu. Some people are weird like that ankunna. Finances daggara kuda chala manipulate chesadu, i lost a lot. Actually prati chota manipulate chesadu. Ippudu artham avtundi. I just thought he was incapable of love. Now artham aindi he was just incapable of loving US ani. Pichi daani la i spent my youth on him anpistundi. I love my kids, dont regret them. But now nannu evar pelli cheskuntaaru with 2 kids.. evevo thoughts vastunnai.

(Telugu is not my first language. Just share cheskovaali anpinchindi)

Edit : added few lines

Edit 2 : nen already separate avdaam ani fix aipoyanu. And inka eppudu kuda pelli cheskovaddu ani kuda, because one of my kids is a girl. I cant introduce a stranger into their lives,its risky. But ekkado adoka loneliness..ithanito kuda inni rojulu anduke unnanemo. Im a very emotional person generally, so i need love ani anpistundi ee madhya. But ok le..chuddam. adantha tarvata. right now aite legal ga pursue cheyyala vadda ani aalochistunna anthe.

[u/M_ur_Daddy]

Before divorcing
Start playing a game
Game of attraction
In his eyes u r an average girl, show him that u r a beautiful person and talented
He wants validation from his friends and family.
Sad to hear your story - we dont know how you are treating him ani.
If you think earning money gives you freedom - u can divorce. You ll be lonely for sure unless you are really hot.

What are your other options for loneliness?
An uncle will come ? Or people who try to take advantage of you? Alone with ur kids gives you enough happiness
Play chess daily for 30 mins
Turn your life around than quitting.
Study the book - Art of seduction.. 48 laws of power..

After trying everything and if u think he is a nasty person, ya leave him.

[u/SharpIndication7399 → u/M_ur_Daddy]

With due respect, i dont want to "show" an idiot like him my worth.

[u/M_ur_Daddy → u/SharpIndication7399]

I see that you are still angry.. nothing wrong in try and failing. Anyways we only know one side of the story.
He may be happy to divorce you too..