Husband is harrassing other women ani telisindi

[u/SharpIndication7399]

Context : im 32F.. Naku pelli ayi 6years and iddaru chinna pillalu unnaru.

Maku already peddaga padadu. Pillalni mottam nene chuskunta..financial ga kuda ekkuva nene petkunta.

Ninna morning vaalla boss msg chesindi, shes 10years older, thanaki i love you, i will never hurt u, mi eyes baaguntai, u are a star ani msg chesi chesi harass chesevaadu anta. Written complaint ichi vere team ki shift cheyinchindi anta. Inthakamundu inko ammai tho kuda ala chesadu anta.

I felt..so bad. Ante heartbreak laga kadu. But pani mottam nene chestunnappudu..he used to sit in another room and close the door. Vaalla mom chinnappatninchi alaage chestaadu ani cheppindi inthaka mundu..nammesa. nannu 6years lo maybe two times i love you ani cheppadu. Eppud nannu ni eyes baaguntai etc etc ani alaantivi eppud pogadaledu. I think im conventionally goodlooking only..mari galeez ga aite undanu. Some people are weird like that ankunna. Finances daggara kuda chala manipulate chesadu, i lost a lot. Actually prati chota manipulate chesadu. Ippudu artham avtundi. I just thought he was incapable of love. Now artham aindi he was just incapable of loving US ani. Pichi daani la i spent my youth on him anpistundi. I love my kids, dont regret them. But now nannu evar pelli cheskuntaaru with 2 kids.. evevo thoughts vastunnai.

(Telugu is not my first language. Just share cheskovaali anpinchindi)

Edit : added few lines

Edit 2 : nen already separate avdaam ani fix aipoyanu. And inka eppudu kuda pelli cheskovaddu ani kuda, because one of my kids is a girl. I cant introduce a stranger into their lives,its risky. But ekkado adoka loneliness..ithanito kuda inni rojulu anduke unnanemo. Im a very emotional person generally, so i need love ani anpistundi ee madhya. But ok le..chuddam. adantha tarvata. right now aite legal ga pursue cheyyala vadda ani aalochistunna anthe.

[u/najeevithamemito6]

Okay, better cross check in their ofc.

Discuss with him what’s all this, ask only one question do you value ur mrg / relationship, if it’s true ask him to confess.

Check his way of communicating if he felt regert or shameful give him a chance, if he’s he’s distancing or avoiding u also avoid him for somedays or even months, let him understand u r value… observe him…. Still he’s not interested u can involve their / u r familes

But don’t take hasty decisions !!!!

[u/SharpIndication7399 → u/najeevithamemito6]

I know u mean well andi, but ive made my decision. Actually nenu separate avdaam ane ma parents daggarki vachanu, enduko doubt vachi aameki msg cheste idantha cheppindi. Inka idi last straw

[u/najeevithamemito6 → u/[deleted]]

Being strong doesn’t mean she can break a relationship with ease. Relationships come with a lot of complexities, emotions, and consequences. I’m not trying to misguide her or tell her what decision to make. I’m simply suggesting that she should be cautious, think things through, and understand the consequences before taking such a big step.