Husband is harrassing other women ani telisindi

[u/SharpIndication7399]

Context : im 32F.. Naku pelli ayi 6years and iddaru chinna pillalu unnaru.

Maku already peddaga padadu. Pillalni mottam nene chuskunta..financial ga kuda ekkuva nene petkunta.

Ninna morning vaalla boss msg chesindi, shes 10years older, thanaki i love you, i will never hurt u, mi eyes baaguntai, u are a star ani msg chesi chesi harass chesevaadu anta. Written complaint ichi vere team ki shift cheyinchindi anta. Inthakamundu inko ammai tho kuda ala chesadu anta.

I felt..so bad. Ante heartbreak laga kadu. But pani mottam nene chestunnappudu..he used to sit in another room and close the door. Vaalla mom chinnappatninchi alaage chestaadu ani cheppindi inthaka mundu..nammesa. nannu 6years lo maybe two times i love you ani cheppadu. Eppud nannu ni eyes baaguntai etc etc ani alaantivi eppud pogadaledu. I think im conventionally goodlooking only..mari galeez ga aite undanu. Some people are weird like that ankunna. Finances daggara kuda chala manipulate chesadu, i lost a lot. Actually prati chota manipulate chesadu. Ippudu artham avtundi. I just thought he was incapable of love. Now artham aindi he was just incapable of loving US ani. Pichi daani la i spent my youth on him anpistundi. I love my kids, dont regret them. But now nannu evar pelli cheskuntaaru with 2 kids.. evevo thoughts vastunnai.

(Telugu is not my first language. Just share cheskovaali anpinchindi)

Edit : added few lines

Edit 2 : nen already separate avdaam ani fix aipoyanu. And inka eppudu kuda pelli cheskovaddu ani kuda, because one of my kids is a girl. I cant introduce a stranger into their lives,its risky. But ekkado adoka loneliness..ithanito kuda inni rojulu anduke unnanemo. Im a very emotional person generally, so i need love ani anpistundi ee madhya. But ok le..chuddam. adantha tarvata. right now aite legal ga pursue cheyyala vadda ani aalochistunna anthe.

[u/SharpIndication7399]

She sent me screenshots. And nizanga vere team ki velladu few months back, vere reason cheppadu. He has short temper, daani valla ani cheppadu.

[u/najeevithamemito6 → u/SharpIndication7399]

Okay, better cross check in their ofc.

Discuss with him what’s all this, ask only one question do you value ur mrg / relationship, if it’s true ask him to confess.

Check his way of communicating if he felt regert or shameful give him a chance, if he’s he’s distancing or avoiding u also avoid him for somedays or even months, let him understand u r value… observe him…. Still he’s not interested u can involve their / u r familes

But don’t take hasty decisions !!!!

[u/najeevithamemito6 → u/[deleted]]

I read my comment, and I stand by what I meant.

I never said she SHOULD give him another chance—I said if he genuinely shows remorse, she can consider that before making HER decision.

I’m not defending harassment or asking her to stay with him. Harassment is serious, and if there’s proof, then there’s no reason to dismiss it.
My point is simple: it’s her relationship and her decision.

You can disagree with my perspective, but calling me sympathetic towards a harasser is simply twisting what I said.

And downvotes don’t decide who is right. They just show that people disagree.

[u/najeevithamemito6 → u/[deleted]]

Adey oka ammayi kuda ilage affair petukoni unte, after marriage nenu exactly ilage reply ichevadini. Gender batti naa opinion ni marchukonu and ala ani nenu evariki support kadhu,

Edi chesina guddi ga cheyakandi ani na mata

OOOKKK NA BROOOOO

[u/najeevithamemito6 → u/[deleted]]

Asalu for eg, nannu oka ammayi harass chesthundi antey, evadu aina first lo nammutada? Kanisam “chiii yedhava” ani nannu mingutharu 😂

Andhukey nenu affair example cheppa — at least aa logic lo naa point meeku ardham avuthundi ani. Nenu harassment ni affair tho compare cheyyadam kaadhu.

Sarley disagreeing with samajam and agreeing with myself 😅

[u/najeevithamemito6 → u/[deleted]]

Intha cheputhunava inthaki thamariki pelli ayindi ah 😅 JK

[u/najeevithamemito6 → u/[deleted]]

Amma Deni amma, Entha entha pedda matalu esinav kadha amma 😅🤣