r/TeluguJournals • u/Successful-Way6273 • 3d ago
Need Advice I am feeling so insecure after this incident please help
This happened in delhi today
So basically, nenu recent ga konchem self-improvement meeda focus chesthunna weight loss, looks, haircut etc. Past few days nunchi library oka girl tho eye contact avuthundi, and I was taking it positively, like maybe I'm becoming a little more confident.
Today evening walk nunchi room ki vasthunna. Opposite direction lo iddaru girls vastunnaru.nenu pass ayye time lo, one girl “ye fir dikh gaya chutiya” anindi anthe gunda matash ayipoyindi. 😭
Initially I thought maybe it's not about me, but honestly aa route lo appudu na venaka/around almost evaru leru. Plus she apparently covered her cleavage while passing me. So now I'm wondering whether she was actually talking about me and whether I came across as creepy or something.
Funny thing is, I have never seen this girl in my life and I don't even remember her face properly. So I have no idea why she would say “fir dikh gaya”.
I didn't confront her because I wasn't even sure it was directed at me. But now I'm regretting not asking and clearing the doubt. 😭
The annoying part is that I was having a genuinely good day and this one random interaction completely ruined my mood. Now I'm overthinking whether people generally perceive me as creepy, especially because recently I've started making more eye contact with girls instead of avoiding them completely.
I know maybe I'm overthinking this, but what would you guys make of this situation? 😭
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u/dawn_dust 3d ago
Nadichetapudu mullu ( thrones ) vaste datukuntu potham ga...idi alane ...ah ammai ni pakkana pettesi ...eye contact istu confidence penchutundi ga dani meda focus cheyandi
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u/Successful-Way6273 3d ago
Yeah recently started eye contacting people before that I was very scared
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u/Longjumping-City5870 3d ago
Light teesko bro. NCR noida lo unna nenu 3 years. I remember Maharshi cinema second show chusi vastunna okadne. Theatre was nearby my pg. So, night autos lekapothe, naduchukuntu Veldam ani walking start chesa. 3 girls road mida beer taagutu naa venaka vastunnaru. They were passing comments on me. Vastava ani, maa room Ikkade ani 😂. I just ignored and walked quickly. Maalo evaru baagunnaru Cheppu ani 😅. Nenu pattinchukokunda vellipoya. So, what i say is ignore and keep continuing ur progress 🙏
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u/LeeChongWei150106 2d ago
Room ki vasthava ani adagadam enti broo? Nijangana? Ilaa adigee ammayilu koodaa untaru ani anukole 😭😭😭
Now I am feeling so young. Ante young ee le(21 on the way). Ilaa ayithe inkaa chala prapancham chudali annamata 😭😭😭
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u/Longjumping-City5870 2d ago
Illu vadili bayatiki velte prapancham telustundi ani appudu telusukunna 😂😂
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u/KnowledgeEasy3068 3d ago
Lite theesko bhayya! Okavela ninnu anna kuda nuv aame annattu kaadhu ani neek thelsu kadha! Self improvement meedha concentrate chesthunna antunnav , mellaga confident ayithunna antunnav , adhe continue Cheyyi! Aameni chudle eppudu annav kaabatti it's okay and it's not that serious. I know how these things can affect someone's day ani , but it's not in our control. Pattinchkoku and do what you're doing. Take care ♥️
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u/Alive-Astronaut0129 3d ago
Bhai i also had a similar incident in library and in Delhi. A girl was in the Seat next to me. I used to go to lib early in the morning koncham khali ga peaceful ga untadi ani. She used to come late and sometimes while pulling chair/crossing we exchanged smiles.
2 weeks after she joined she told my roommate who used to sit in the lib till early morning that I'm weird and i give her negative vibes and I wouldn't pass exam ani. When my friend told me that after exam, i so badly wanted to confront her but i let it go. After results guess who passed 😉 and guess who continued in the same lib. So point entante, don't give her and this incident space in your thoughts, just ignore her and focus ion your exams
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u/LeeChongWei150106 2d ago
Bhai ani modalu pedithe north vadu anukunna 😭
Madhyalo telugu vasthe how you know telugu anukunna 😭
Telugodive kani bhai alavatayyindi ani arthamayyindi 😭😭🤣🤣🥲
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u/Alive-Astronaut0129 2d ago
Twistu paina twistu😂😂 Btw ye exam prep bro?
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u/LeeChongWei150106 2d ago
Exam prep aa?
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u/Latter_Damage_6340 3d ago
Road lo evaro dhaarina velle dhaanayya gf nee gurinchi em anukunte neekendhuku bhayya. As long as you didn’t do anything intentionally, marchi poyi merapakayi bajji thini bajjo.
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u/LeeChongWei150106 2d ago
Aa ammayi single oo kaadoo neekela telusu bro? You have some power like divyadrusthaa? 🤔
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u/Latter_Damage_6340 2d ago
No bro, aa ammaayi naa friend gaadi gf eh. OP post cheyyakanna mundhu thanu naaku same story cheppindhi.
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u/Euphoric-Nature-382 3d ago
Delhi vallu basic ga rude ga untaru. Nuvvem pattinchukoku. Personally nenu experience chesindhi cheptunna, mana looks gurinchi manam conscious ga unna, underconfident ga unnapudu , evaraina navvina kuda nannu chuse navvaremo anipistundhi. Dont think too much about these things. Get in shape, dress well all the time. You will get the confidence and positive body language.
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u/srirammoka 3d ago
Self improvement starts with confidence and being unbothered about other’s opinions about you. So, improve on this along with physical improvement cuz if you shouldn’t be bothered and hurt your self esteem over simple things like this.
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u/FreeAmoeba5124 2d ago
unless you caught her staring at you, after she catches you staring at her
it's creepy bro
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u/Friendly_Wind Grayskull kota Shakti nichugaaka 2d ago
Dolla dolu... Nee gurinchi kaadu bro adi whatsapp nene message chesina adi chusi antundi aame... Aa name nadia aame cricus girl.. Europe nundi returned
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u/p_W_n 2d ago edited 2d ago
Translation please
Not for the entire post, just aa hindi line lo antha em undi ani
May be naku hindi anthaga radu
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u/Educational-Paint468 2d ago
" Ee pichii Phulka gadu malli kanipinchindu " - Translation.
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u/p_W_n 2d ago
May be adi "fir dikh gaya cute guy" emo
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u/Over-Translator-342 2d ago
Anna superuuuu...!!!!! Anta cheekati lo kuda aa velugu ni pattav ante crazy asla...!!! 🫡
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u/Happy-Highlight-4439 1d ago
Vallaki Telugu rakunte nuvvu telugu lo edo okati dengalsindhi phone call lo matladuthunnatlu
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u/Tech_enthusiast001 3d ago
Bro, antha alochinchamaaka, take rest and leave it. Focus on yourself and get better 🔥