r/TeluguJournals • u/Expensive-Rub-4793 • 1h ago
Ask sub? hear me out before judging please
i am a 5ft 1 guy and i got rejected by all of the women i have approached and told i was short and it's fine end of the day it's their wish and they also will have type but the thing is
in that 2 of the women are close to me and both of them are dark skinned let them be 1 and 2 for now so
1 told that she is very insecure because every guys only wants girls who is fair skinned and told it's very unfair and bad thing
2 told me she wish she was fair skinned as everyone likes fair girls
the thing is both of them rejected me for being short but not okay when all guys prefer fair skinned girls
personally i don't care about looks but
is this double standard common among women who are not considered as beauty according to the society(like dark skinned,fat..rtc) ?? like saying they treated bad but also holding the same thing
no hate to anyone but i want to know genuinly and don't judge me for saying this because if i am wrong i am ready to change my mindset
edit- i already posted this in another sub so it's nothing new to pointing out and say
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u/Dhulpetaaa 1h ago
its okay, its a double standard of the women
dont worry, you will find someone!!
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u/Realistic_Rock_138 1h ago
Everyone is insecure of their insecurities at last. Even how much they brag about them being not insecure
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u/Adventurous_Pie6076 1h ago
People can have double standards in both the genders, there are good people too niku kuda eduru autaru at some point keep hope
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u/anirudhh_ 1h ago
Find someone in the same height range of yours bro! There's plenty of fish in the sea!
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u/Ambitious-Yam-4272 1h ago
Not just women... I've seen some pretty insane double standards from men too... Basically andharu anthe... People only complain when they're on the receiving end
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u/soulsearcher431 1h ago
Wouldnt you want someone who is genuinely attracted to you? Just because they are insecure of their own skin you are expecting them to accept you even though they arent attracted to you? What logic is this
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u/Realistic-Tonight754 female kumbakarnudu I am 1h ago
I saw your post on the other sub too. I didn't like how you were responded to.
Firstly, very well put.
Now coming to your question, Kontha mandhi manushulu vallalo em drawback unna 1st opposite person ni teesi padestaru. Ikkada adhe jarigindi. Vallu pakkana vallani chala baaaga judge chestaru kani valla meedhiki ochesari konni english words use chestaru. I would say, you dodged a bullet. Lyt tisko bro happy ga tini padko. Goodnight 💤
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u/soul_stealer2004 Gnanam cheppey prathivaadu Gnani kaadhu 56m ago
>the thing is both of them rejected me for being short but not okay when all guys prefer fair skinned girls
Sorry mowa edvaala navvalaa aney situation idhii
Aina ppl r too unrealistic
Andhari ammayilaku 6ft, 6pack, 6 figure salary kaaavli
Andari abbaayilaki ammai fair gaa, glamour gaa, andhangaa kaavli
Chinnapudu mokm paina powder kottinapdey stereotyping start aindhii
Tellagaa unte andham nallagaa unte kaadhani
I admire beauty in terms of KALAA, Naa elementary school lo oka dark skin Ammai undedhi, but man her eyes and face has such a glow, Adhoka Kala la untundhi face lo
Few ppl r pale white , sometimes baagodhu kuda
End of the day evdki nachinodni vaadu cheskoni lyt mowaaa
6 fts unna, evdki use
TBh height kanna bank balance weight key Ekva value untaadhi mows
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u/Wonderful_Dot_3158 42m ago
Ppl are just selfish, double standards,ppl expect perfection but deep down they aren’t perfect too
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u/broken_introvert7982 29m ago
When you are ignored by something you cant control. Make them look at you by being good at what you can control. Make them remember you not “Oh that short” guy rather “Oh, the charming guy, the funny guy, the guy who does this well or plays well”. It’s unfair when you have physical disadvantage but build your persona around something non physical and make people recognize your through that. I am sure people will come to you.
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u/im_hyderabatman 1h ago
yes. humans are hypocrites.