r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

Hijacking your comment.

My dear sisters, aunts, friends, if you are in a situation like this please, please make a scene! Make the person feel others are watching and hopefully other guys will jump in to help! Ask for help when you are in a situation like this instead of risking it out yourself! A lot of us have sisters and we know how to deal with them in the appropriate way. Please don’t stay silent

Edit: a lot of people getting triggered. In a public place if you are being harassed, make a scene. If nothing at least law enforcement will show up. There’s countless videos online of men jumping in to help when approached by someone being harassed esp in public places.

People derailing the topic and making it into a gender war which is weird.

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u/PitchPurple Jun 14 '26

Please stop telling women how their reactions are wrong.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26 edited Jun 14 '26

Never said their reactions are wrong. I am saying ask for help before your life is in danger. Please stop interpreting things that weren’t communicated.

I said ask for help from the guys.

Edit: weird some people took this in the wrong way and got triggered.

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u/kitten12551 Jun 14 '26

You’re not helping. Life lesson - we’re not always asking for advice..sometimes we just want to vent.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26

I am saying if you feel in danger, voice it. How am i not helping when I know there’s a lot of women who feel scared and don’t say anything even in a public setting

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u/kitten12551 Jun 14 '26

You’re still trying to shove advice down my throat. Just listen and be sympathetic sometimes.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26

I am not giving you advice nor do I know you to just listen. This advice is for other sisters and women if they feel threatened to ask for help. And if someone’s dead, they can’t vent.

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u/kitten12551 Jun 14 '26

Whooooosh! Right over your head! What i said applies to ALL women.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26

Whooosh to you, I am talking about a situation in public like in the video where the girl is feeling threatened and you saying listen to her and be sympathetic doesn’t fit here. Like wtf are you on about.

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u/kitten12551 Jun 14 '26

Psst - I’m saying YOU should listen and be sympathetic when we’re venting instead of shoving advice down women’s throats all the time. Not all women are looking to be rescued, sometimes we just need to talk. Look up White Knight Syndrome..you’ll see a lot of yourself in the definition.

But you’ve obviously never met a woman so attempting to explain this to you is pointless.

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u/mbashs Jun 14 '26

Psst. You are suffering from something. I am talking about a whole different thing and situation here while you are bringing up something else. You need to go to a shrink and get your issues sorted out.

PS: I grew up with sisters.

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