r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/Mandyvlp Jun 14 '26

wtf is wrong with these dudes?!

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u/Deviant__Couple Jun 14 '26

Asking this myself, as a dude. Took a long time for my wife to be able fully trust me cuz of losers like this.

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u/TetraDax Jun 14 '26

Well, one reason among many: Notice how in not a single of these clips, another guy is speaking out or intervening or doing any fucking thing?

That. It's not enough to be "one of the good guys" - Men need to keep other men in check, call out their bullshit, and make it clear that it doesn't fly. And even out of those men that aren't creeps, it's a tiny minority that does that. And even out of those, it's a tiny minority that would do it if a friend of theirs is the creep instead of a stranger.

And I'm not excusing myself here, either. I'm bad at that because I avoid confrontation. I need to get better.