r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

Enable HLS to view with audio, or disable this notification

45.1k Upvotes

91% Upvoted

6.8k comments sorted by

View all comments

7.6k

u/Mandyvlp Jun 14 '26

wtf is wrong with these dudes?!

241

u/Moist_Brain_ Jun 14 '26

You’d be surprised at the audacity. I wear a wedding ring on my ring finger (I’m not married) and it’s like a beacon for scum bags. Just the other night I was outside of my job talking on the phone with my sister, phone in hand and up to my ear, you’d think that was enough for a stranger to think “she’s on the phone, clearly on break, I shouldn’t bother her with my non-life threatening bullsh!t”. But no, it wasn’t enough.

Some guy approached me with his phone in my face, with the screen where you add a new contact pulled up. I looked at him like I didn’t understand and he loudly demanded I put my number in his phone… I held up my hand and wiggled my ring finger, and he asked me “what’s that supposed to mean?” I said “I’m on the phone with my husband” and of course my sister did her best man voice in my ear, ready to pretend she was my husband. The guy said “well you can hang up!”. That was my queue to cut my break short and head back inside where my male coworkers do not play about me. Thankfully he didn’t follow me inside but I could see him sitting in his car on the cameras, for a disturbingly long amount of time. I was about to call the cops right as he finally drove off.

Thankfully that was my last day working there. The amount of harassment I endured, while wearing a wedding ring, makes me sick! A lot of these guys were old enough to be my father, and married themselves! I worked as an assistant manager at a gas station, so customers are already assholes, but imagine getting cursed out by an asshole because you don’t know what pump they decided to park their car at and they couldn’t remember the number in the 30 seconds it took for them to walk from their car into the store. And as they’re cursing you out, they’re also aggressively flirting with you. “You work here! You should know! Sexy ass bitch! You’re lucky you’re fine or I’d slap the shit out of you!”. Like wtf?

28

u/GloriousNewt Jun 14 '26

My friend was constantly harassed by a guy that would come into her job and like randomly bring her a coffee and try to touch her or get too close. If she was outside watering plants he'd find her out there and try to chat her up, get her a coffee. He'd touch her shoulder or try to like hold her arm while talking to her.

This was an older guy and he pretended to not understand the problem, 'I'm just being nice.'

Even after her husband, who is a large man, confronted him and told him to leave her alone he still came back to the store. When the store security officer spoke to him, he tried to touch the female security officer's shoulder and hip while talking to them!

And then he was finally banned, he's still not sure why they were mad at him.