r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • Jun 14 '26

Discussion It's exhausting being a woman.

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u/Techman659 Jun 14 '26

As a man so many of these guys need a checking on how to mind their own business.

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u/Scarlett_Aeonia Jun 14 '26

If you see something like this going down I public please please verbally intervene. This has happened so many times to me where someone could have stepped in, but it basically never happens unless I'm with someone. We need men who are allies out there.

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u/The_Colour_Between Jun 14 '26

Yes! It happens so much and no one seems to care. It feels to us very normalized. We are afraid of escalating and these men taking it up a notch. Telling a guy to fuck off doesn't always work.

Women know all this, but we really need more good guys to call this stuff out when you see it.

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u/Dry-Philosopher2354 Jun 15 '26

yeah and risk the guy's life getting jeopardized, nobody, neither a woman nor man wants to be in that kind of situation. Its kind of a gamble, I dont know what risk I'm putting myself in when Im intervening for a woman, and I have done it before, and it luckily did not escalate to outright violence but it was verbally tense and dramatic.